You have importuned me, Novatus, to write on
the subject of how anger may be allayed, and it seems to me that you had
good reason to fear in an especial degree this, the most hideous and frenzied
of all the emotions. For the other emotions have in them some element of
peace and calm, while this one is wholly violent and has its being in an
onrush of resentment, raging with a most inhuman lust for weapons, blood,
and punishment, giving no thought to itself if only it can hurt another,
hurling itself upon the very point of the dagger, and eager for revenge
though it may drag down the avenger along with it. Certain wise men, therefore,
have claimed that anger is temporary madness.
For it is equally devoid of self- control, forgetful of decency, unmindful
of ties, persistent and diligent in whatever it begins, closed to reason
and counsel, excited by trifling causes, unfit to discern the right and
true - the very counterpart of a ruin that is shattered in pieces where
it overwhelms. But you have only to behold the aspect of those possessed
by anger to know that they are insane. For as the marks of a madman are
unmistakable - a bold and threatening mien, a gloomy
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brow, a fierce expression, a hurried step, restless hands, an altered
colour, a quick and more violent breathing - so likewise are the marks
of the angry man; his eyes blaze and sparkle, his whole face is crimson
with the blood that surges from the lowest depths of the heart, his lips
quiver, his teeth are clenched, his hair bristles and stands on end, his
breathing is forced and harsh, his joints crack from writhing, he groans
and bellows, bursts out into speech with scarcely intelligible words, strikes
his hands together continually, and stamps the ground with his feet; his
whole body is excited and "performs great angry threats"; it is an ugly
and horrible picture of distorted and swollen frenzy -you cannot tell whether
this vice is more execrable or more hideous. Other vices may be concealed
and cherished in secret; anger shows itself openly and appears in the countenance,
and the greater it is, the more visibly it boils forth. Do you not see
how animals of every sort, as soon as they bestir themselves for mischief,
show premonitory signs, and how their whole body, forsaking its natural
state of repose, accentuates their ferocity? Wild boars foam at the mouth
and sharpen their tusks by friction, bulls toss their horns in the air
and scatter the sand by pawing, lions roar, snakes puff up their necks
when they are angry, and mad dogs have a sullen look. No animal
is so hateful and so deadly by nature as not to show a fresh access of
fierceness as soon as it is assailed by anger. And yet I am aware that
the other emotions as well are not easily concealed; that lust and fear
and boldness all show their marks and can be recognized beforehand. For
no violent agitation can take hold of the mind without affecting in
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some way the countenance. Where, then, lies the difference? In this
- the other emotion
ns show, anger stands out.
Moreover, if you choose to view its results
and the harm of it, no plague has cost the human race more dear. You will
see bloodshed and poisoning, the vile countercharges of criminals, the
downfall of cities and whole nations given to destruction, princely persons
sold at public auction, houses put to the torch, and conflagration that
halts not within the city-walls, but makes great stretches of the country
glow with hostile flame./b Behold the most glorious cities whose foundations
can scarcely be traced - anger cast them down. Behold solitudes stretching
lonely for many miles without a single dweller - anger laid them waste.
Behold all the leaders who have been handed down to posterity as instances
of an evil fate - anger stabbed this one in his bed, struck down this one
amid the sanctities of the feast,/c tore this one to pieces in the very
home of the law and in full view of the crowded forum,/d forced this one
to have his blood spilled by the murderous act of his son, another to have
his royal throat cut by the hand of a slave, another to have his limbs
stretched upon the cross. And hitherto I have mentioned the sufferings
of individual persons only; what if, leaving aside these who sinely felt
the force of anger's flame, you should choose to view the gatherings cut
down by the sword, the populace butchered by soldiery let loose upon them,
and whole peoples condemned to death in common ruin
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definition differs little from mine; for he says that anger is the
desire to repay suffering. To trace the difference between his definition
and mine would take too long. In criticism of both it may be said that
wild beasts become angry though they are neither stirred by injury nor
bent on the punishment or the suffering of another; for even if they accomplish
these ends, they do not seek them. But our reply must be that wild beasts
and all animals, except man, are not subject to anger; for while it is
the
foe of reason, it is, nevertheless, born only where reason dwells.
Wild beasts have impulses, madness, fierceness, aggressiveness; but they
no more have anger than they have luxuriousness. Yet in regard to certain
pleasures they are less self-restrained than man. You are not to believe
the words of the poet:
The boar his wrath forgets, the hind her trust
in flight,
Nor bears will now essay the sturdy kine to
fight./b
Their being aroused and spurred to action he calls their "wrath"; but
they know no more how to be wroth than to pardon. Dumb animals lack the
emotions of man, but they have certain impulses similar to these emotions.
Otherwise, if they were capable of love and hate, they would also be capable
of friendship and enmity, discord and harmony; and some traces of these
qualities do appear in them also, but the qualities of good and bad are
peculiar to the human breast. Wisdom, foresight, diligence, and reflection
have been granted to no creature but man, and not only his virtues but
also his faults have been withheld from the animals.
As their outward form is wholly different from that of man, so is their
inner
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nature; its guiding and directing principle is cast in a different mould.
They have a voice, it is true, but it is unintelligible, uncontrolled,
and incapable of speech; they have a tongue, but it is shackled and not
free to make many different movements. So likewise in them the ruling principle
itself is lacking in fineness and precision. Consequently, while it forms
impressions and notions of the things that arouse it to action, they are
clouded and indistinct. It follows, accordingly, that while they have violent
outbreaks and mental disturbances, they do not have fear and anxiety, sorrow
and anger, but certain states similar to them. These, therefore, quickly
pass and change to the exact reverse, and animals, after showing the sharpest
frenzy and fear, will begin to feed, and their frantic bellowing and plunging
is immediately followed by repose and sleep.
What anger is has now been sufficiently explained.
The difference between it and irascibility is evident; it is like the difference
between a drunken man and a drunkard, between a frightened man and a coward.
An angry man may not be an irascible man; an irascible man may, at times,
not be an angry man. The other categories which the Greeks, using a multiplicity
of terms, establish for the different kinds of anger I shall pass over,
since we have no distinctive words for them; and yet we call men bitter
and harsh, and, just as often, choleric, rabid, brawlsome, captious, and
fierce - all of which designate different aspects of anger. Here, too,
you may place the peevish man, whose state is a mild sort of irascibility.
Now there are certain kinds of anger which subside in noise; some are as
persistent as they are common; some are fierce in deed but inclined to
be frugal of
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discretion, not with anger. For it will not hurt, but will heal under
the guise of hurting. As we apply the flame to certain spearshafts when
they are crooked in order to straighten them, and compress them by driving
in wedges, not to crush them, but to take out their kinks, so through pain
applied to body and mind we reform the natures of men that are distorted
by vice. Manifestly, a physician, in the case of slight disorders, tries
at first not to make much change in his patient's daily habits; he lays
down a regimen for food, drink, and exercise, and tries to improve his
health only through a change in the ordering of his life. His next concern
is to see that the amount is conducive to health. If the first amount and
regimen fail to bring relief, he orders a reduction and lops off some things.
If still there is no response, he prohibits food and disburdens the body
by fasting. If these milder measures are unavailing he opens a vein, and
then, if the limbs by continuing to be attached to the body are doing it
harm and spreading the disease, he lays violent hands on them. No treatment
seems harsh if its result is salutary. Similarly, it becomes a guardian
of the law, the ruler of the state, to heal human nature by the use of
words, and these of the milder sort, as long as he can, to the end that
he may persuade a man to do what he ought to do, and win over his heart
to a desire for the honourable and the just, and implant in his mind hatred
of vice and esteem of virtue. Let him pass next to harsher language, in
which he will still aim at admonition and reproof. Lastly, let him resort
to punishment, yet still making it light and not irrevocable. Extreme punishment
let him appoint only to extreme crime, so that no
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man will lose his life unless it is to the benefit even of the loser
to lose it. In only one particular will he differ from the physician. For
while the one supplies to the patients to whom he has been unable to give
the boon of life an easy exit from it, the other forcibly expels the condemned
from life, covered with disgrace and public ignominy, not because he takes
pleasure in the punishment of any one - for the wise man is far from such
inhuman ferocity - but that they may prove a warning to all, and, since
they were unwilling to be useful while alive, that in death at any rate
they may be of service to the state. Man's nature, then, does not crave
vengeance; neither, therefore, does anger accord with man's nature, because
anger craves vengeance. And I may adduce here the argument of Plato - for
what harm is there in using the arguments of others, so far as they are
our own? "The good man," he says, "does no injury." Punishment injures;
therefore punishment is not consistent with good, nor, for the same reason,
is anger, since punishment is consistent with anger. If the good
man rejoices not in punishment, neither will he rejoice in that mood which
takes pleasure in punishment; therefore anger is contrary to nature.
Although anger be contrary to nature, may
it not be right to adopt it, because it has often been useful? It rouses
and incites the spirit, and without it bravery performs no splendid deed
in war - unless it supplies the flame, unless it acts as a goad to spur
on brave men and send them into danger. Therefore some think that the best
course is to control anger, not to banish it, and by removing its excesses
to confine it within beneficial bounds, keeping, however, that
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part without which, action will be inert and the mind's force and energy
broken. In the first place, it is easier to exclude harmful passions than
to rule them, and to deny them admittance than, after they have been admitted,
to control them; for when they have established themselves in possession,
they are stronger than their ruler and do not permit themselves to be restrained
or reduced. In the second place, Reason herself, to whom the reins of power
have been entrusted, remains mistress only so long as she is kept apart
from the passions: if once she mingles with them and is contaminated, she
becomes unable to hold back those whom she might have cleared from her
path. For when
once the mind has been aroused and shaken, it becomes the slave of the
disturbing agent. There are certain things which at the start are under
our control, but later hurry us away by their violence and leave us no
retreat. As a victim hurled from the precipice has no control of his body,
and, once cast off, can neither stop nor stay, but, speeding on irrevocably,
is cut off from all reconsideration and repentance and cannot now avoid
arriving at the goal toward which he might once have avoided starting,
so with the mind - if it plunges into anger, love, or the other passions,
it has no power to check its impetus; its very weight and the downward
tendency of vice needs must hurry it on, and drive it to the bottom.
The best course is to reject at once the first
incitement to anger, to resist even its small beginnings, and to take pains
to avoid falling into anger. For if it begins to lead us astray, the return
to the safe path is difficult, since, if once we admit the emotion and
by our own free will grant it any authority, reason
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becomes of no avail; after that it will do, not whatever you let it,
but whatever it chooses. The enemy, I repeat, must be stopped at the very
frontier; for if he has passed it, and advanced within the city gates,
he will not respect any bounds set by his captives. For the mind is not
a member apart, nor does it view the passions merely objectively, thus
forbidding them to advance farther than they ought, but it is itself transformed
into the passion and is, therefore, unable to recover its former useful
and saving power when this has once been betrayed and weakened. For, as
I said before, these two do not dwell separate and distinct, but passion
and reason are only the transformation of the mind toward the better or
the worse. How, then, will the reason, after it has surrendered to anger,
rise again, assailed and crushed as it is by vice? Or how shall it free
itself from the motley combination in which a blending of all the worse
qualities makes them supreme? "But," says some one, "there are those who
control themselves even in anger." You mean, then, that they do none of
the things that anger dictates, or only some of them? If they do none,
it is evident that anger is not essential to the transactions oflife, and
yet you were advocating it on the ground that it is something stronger
than reason. I ask, in fine, is anger more powerful or weaker than reason?
If it is more powerful, how will reason be able to set limitations upon
it, since, ordinarily, it is only the less powerful thing that submits?
If it is weaker, then reason without it is sufficient in itself for the
accomplishment of our tasks, and requires no help from a thing less powerful.
Yet you say, "There are those who, even though angry, remain true to themselves
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for I understand this to be unbridled and ungovernable. If it suffers
no limitation, it is a baneful thing and is not to be counted as a helpful
agent. Thus either anger is not anger or it is useless. For the man who
exacts punishment, not because he desires punishment for its own sake,
but because it is right to inflict it, ought not to be counted as an angry
man. The useful soldier will be one who knows how to obey orders; the passions
are as bad subordinates they are leaders.
Consequently, reason will never call to its
help blind and violent impulses over which it will itself have no control,
which it can never crush save by setting against them equally powerful
and similar impulses, as fear against anger, anger against sloth, greed
against fear. May virtue be spared the calamity of having reason ever flee
for help to vice! It is impossible for the mind to find here a sure repose;
shattered and storm-tossed it must ever be if it depends upon its worst
qualities to save it, if it cannot be brave without being angry, if it
cannot be industrious without being greedy, if it cannot be quiet without
being afraid - such is the tyranny under which that man must live who surrenders
to the bondage of any passion. Is it not a shame to degrade the virtues
into dependence upon the vices? Again, reason ceases to have power if it
has no power apart from passion, and so gets to be on the same level with
passion and like unto it. For what difference is there, if passion without
reason is a thing as unguided as reason without passion is ineffective?
Both are on the same level, if one cannot exist without the other. Yet
who would maintain that passion is on a level with reason? "Passion," some
one
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says, "is useful, provided that it be moderate. "No, only by its nature
can it be useful. If, however, it will not submit to authority and reason,
the only result of its moderation will be that the less there is of it,
the less harm it will do. Consequently moderate passion is nothing else
than a moderate evil. "But against the enemy," it is said, "anger is necessary."
Nowhere is it less so; for there the attack ought not to be disorderly,
but regulated and under control. What else is it, in fact, but their anger
- its own worst foe - that reduces to impotency the barbarians, who are
so much stronger of body than we, and so much better able to endure hardship?
So, too, in the case of gladiators skill is their protection, anger their
undoing. Of what use, further, is anger, when the same end may be accomplished
by reason? Think you the hunter has anger toward wild beasts? Yet when
they come, he takes them, and when they flee, he follows, and reason does
it all without anger. The Cimbrians and the Teutons "who poured over
the Alps in countless thousands -what wiped them out so completely that
even the news of the great disaster was carried to their homes, not by
a messenger, but only by rumour, except that they substituted anger for
valour? Anger, although it will sometimes overthrow and lay low whatever
gets in its way, yet more often brings destruction on itself. Who are more
courageous than the Germans? Who are bolder in a charge? Who have more
love of the arms to which they are born and bred, which to the exclusion
of all else become their only care? Who are more hardened to endurance
of every kind, since they are, in large measure, provided with no protection
for their bodies,
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with no shelter against the continual rigour of the climate? Yet these
are they whom the Spaniards and the Gauls and men of Asia and Syria, uninured
to war, cut down before they could even glimpse a Roman legion, the victims
of nothing else than anger. But mark you, once give discipline to those
bodies, give reason to those minds that are strangers still to pampered
ways, excess, and wealth, and we Romans t mention nothing further - shall
assuredly be foreeel to return to the ancient Roman ways. How else did
Fabius restore the broken forces of the state but by knowing how to loiter,
to put off, and to wait - things of which angry men know nothing? The
state, which was standing then in the utmost extremity, had surely perished
if Fabius had ventured to do all that anger prompted. But he took into
consideration the well-being of the state, and, estimating its strength,
of which now nothing could be lost without the loss of all, he buried all
thought of resentment and revenge and was concerned only with expediency
and the fitting opportunity; he conquered anger before he conquered Hannibal.
And what of Scipio? Did he not leave behind him Hannibal and the Carthaginian
army and all those with whom he had reason to be angry, and dally so long/b
in transferring the war to Africa that he gave to evil-minded people the
impression that he was a sensualist and a sluggard? What, too, of the other
Scipio?/c Did he not sit before Numantia, idling much and long, and bear
unmoved the reproach to himself and to his country that it took longer
to conquer Numantia than to conquer Carthage? But by blockading and investing/d
the enemy he forced them to such straits that they perished by
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their own swords. Anger,therefore,is not expedient even in battle or
in war; for it is prone to rashness, and while it seeks to bring about
danger, does not guard against it. The truest form of wisdom is to make
a wide and long inspection, to put self in subjection, and then to move
forward slowly and in a set direction.
"What then?" you ask; "will the good man not
be angry if his father is murdered, his mother outraged before his eyes?
"No, he will not be angry, but he will avenge them, will protect them.
Why, moreover, are you afraid that filial affection, even without anger,
may not prove a sufficiently strong incentive for him? Or you might as
well say: "What then? if a good man should see his father or his son under
the knife, will he not weep, will he not faint?" But this is the way we
see women act whenever they are upset by the slightest suggestion of danger.
The good man will perform his duties undisturbed and unafraid; and he will
in such a way do all that is worthy of a good man as to do nothing that
is unworthy of a man. My father is being murdered - I will defend him;
he is slain - I will avenge him, not because I grieve, but because it is
my duty. "Good men are made angry by the injuries of those they love."
When you say this, Theophrastus, you seek to make more heroic doctrine
unpopular - you turn from the judge to the bystanders. Because each individual
grows angry when such a mishap comes to those he loves, you think that
men will judge that what they do is the right thing to be done; for as
a rule every man decides that that is a justifiable passion which he acknowledges
as his own. But they act in the same way if they
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are not well supplied with hot water, if a glass goblet is broken, if
a shoe gets splashed with mud. Such anger comes, not from affection, but
from a weakness - the kind we see in children, who will shed no more tears
over lost parents than over lost toys. To feel anger on behalf of loved
ones is the mark of a weak mind, not of a loyal one. For a man to stand
forth as the defender of parents, children, friends, and fellow-citizens,
led merely by his sense of duty, acting voluntarily, using judgement, using
foresight, moved neither by impulse nor by fury - this is noble and becoming.
Now no passion is more eager for revenge than anger, and for that very
reason is unfit to take it; being unduly ardent and frenzied, as most lusts
are, it blocks its own progress to the goal toward which it hastens, Therefore
it has never been of advantage either in peace or in war; for it makes
peace seem like war, and amid the clash of arms it forgets that the War-god
shows no favour and, failing to control itself, it passes into the control
of another. Again, it does not follow that the vices are to be adopted
for use from the fact that they have sometimes been to some extent profitable.
For a fever may bring relief in certain kinds of sickness, and yet it does
not follow from this that it is not better to be altogether free from fever.
A method of cure that makes good health dependent upon disease must be
regarded with detestation. In like manner anger, like poison, a fall, or
a shipwreck, even if it has sometimes proved an unexpected good, ought
not for that reason to be adjudged wholesome; for ofttimes poisons have
saved life. Again, if any quality is worth having, the more of it there
is, the better and the more desirable it becomes.
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If justice is a good, no one will say that it becomes a greater good
after something has been withdrawn from it; if bravery is a good, no one
will desire it to be in any measure reduced. Consequently, also, the greater
anger is, the better it is; for who would oppose the augmentation of any
good? And yet, it is not profitable that anger should be increased; therefore,
that anger should exist either. That is not a good which by increase becomes
an evil "Anger is profitable," it is said, "because it makes men more warlike."
By that reasoning, so is drunkenness too; for it makes men forward and
bold, and many have been better at the sword because they were. the worse
for drink. By the same reasoning you must also say that lunacy and madness
are essential to strength, since frenzy often makes men more, powerful.
But tell me, does not fear, in the opposite way, sometimes make a man bold,
and does not the terror of death arouse even errant cowards to fight? But
anger, drunkenness, fear, and the like, are base and fleeting incitements
and do not give arms to virtue, which never needs the help of vice; they
do, however, assist somewhat the mind that is otherwise slack and cowardly.
No man is ever made braver through anger, except the one who would never
have been brave without anger. It comes, then, not as a help to virtue,
but as a substitute for it. And is it not -true that if anger were a good,
it would come naturally to those who are the most perfect? But the fact
is, children, old men, and the sick are most prone to anger, and weakness
of any sort is by nature captious.
"It is impossible", says Theophrastus, "for
a good man not to be angry with bad men." Accord-
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ing to this, the better a man is, the more irascible he will be; on
the contrary, be sure that none is more peaceable, more free from passion,
and less given to hate. Indeed, what reason has he for hating wrong-doers,
since it is error that drives them to such mistakes?
But no man of sense will hate the erring; otherwise he will hate himself.
Let him reflect how many times he offends against morality, how many of
his acts stand in need of pardon; then he will be angry with himself also.
For no just judge will pronounce one sort of judgement in his own case
and a different one in the case of others. No one will be found, I say,
who is able to acquit himself, and any man who calls himself innocent is
thinking more of witnesses than conscience. How much more human to manifest
toward wrong-doers a kind and fatherly spirit, not hunting them down but
calling them back! If a man has lost his way and is roaming across our
fields, it is better to put him upon the right path than to drive him out.
And so the man who does wrong ought to be
set right both by admonition and by force, by measures both gentle and
harsh, and we should try to make him a better man for his own sake, as
well as for the sake of others, stinting, not our reproof, but our anger.
For what physician will show anger toward a patient? "But," you say, "they
are incapable of being reformed, there is nothing pliable in them, nothing
that gives room for fair hope." Then let them be removed from human society
if they are bound to make worse all that they touch, and let them, in the
only way this is possible, cease to be evil - but let this be done without
hatred. For what reason have I for
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hating a man to whom I am offering the greatest service when I save
him from himself? Does a man hate the members of his own body when he uses
the knife upon them? There is no anger there, but the pitying desire to
heal. Mad dogs we knock on the head; the fierce and savage ox we slay;
sickly sheep we put to the knife to keep them from infecting the flock;
unnatural progeny we destroy; we drown even children who at birth are weakly
and abnormal. Yet it is not anger but reason that separates the harmful
from the sound. For the one who administers punishment nothing is so unfitting
as anger, since punishment is all the better able to work reform if it
is bestowed with judgement. This is the reason Socrates says to his slave:
"I would beat you if I were not angry." The slave's reproof he postponed
to a more rational moment; at the time it was himself he reproved. Will
there be any one, pray, who has passion under control, when even Socrates
did not dare to trust himself to anger? Consequently, there is no need
that correction be given in anger in order to restrain the erring and the
wicked. For since anger is a mental sin, it is not right to correct wrong-doing
by doing wrong. "What then? you exclaim; "shall I not be angry with a robber?
Shall I not be angry with a poisoner? "No; for I am not angry with myself
when I let my own blood. To every form of punishment will I resort, but
only as a remedy. If you are lingering as yet in the first stage of error
and are lapsing, not seriously, but often, I shall try to correct you by
chiding, first in private, then in public. If you have already advanced
so far that words can no longer bring you to your senses, then you shall
be
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held in check by public disgrace. Should it be necessary to brand you
in more drastic fashion, with a punishment you can feel, you shall be sent
into exile, banished to an unknown region. Should your wickedness have
become deep-rooted, demanding harsher remedies to niect your case, to chains
and the state-prison we shall have resort. If with mind incurable you link
crime to crime and are actuated no longer by the excuses which will never
fail the evil man, but wrong-doing itself becomes to you pretext enough
for doing wrong; if you have drained the cup of wickedness and its poison
has so mingled with your vitals that it cannot issue forth without them;
if, poor wretch! you have long desired to die, then we shall do you good
service - we shall take from you that madness by which, while you harass
others, you yourself are harassed, and to you who have long wallowed in
the suffering of yourself and others we shall gladly give the only boon
still left for you, death! Why should I be angry with a man to whom I am
giving the greatest help? Sometimes the truest form of pity is to kill.
If with the training of an expert physician I had entered a hospital or
a rich man's household, I should not have prescribed the same treatment
to all, though their diseases differed. Diverse, too, are the ills I see
in countless minds, and I am called to cure the body politic; for each
man's malady the proper treatment should be sought; let this one be restored
by his own self- respect, this one by a sojourn abroad, this one by pain,
this one by poverty, this one by the sword! Accordingly, even if as a magistrate
I must put on my robe awry and summon the assembly by the trumpet/b I
shall
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advance to the high tribunal, not in rage nor in enmity, but with the
visage of the law, and as I pronounce those solemn words my voice will
not be fierce, but rather grave and gentle, and not with anger, but with
sternness, I shall order the law to be enforeed. And when I command a criminal
to be beheaded, or sew up a parricide in the sack, or send a soldier
to his doom, or stand a traitor or a public enemy upon the Tarpeian Rock,
I shall have no trace of anger, but shall look and feel as I might if I
were killing a snake or any poisonous creature. "We have to be angry,"
you say, "in order to punish." What! Think you the law is angry with men
it does not know, whom it has never seen, who it hopes will never be? The
spirit of the law, therefore, we should make our own - the law which shows
not anger but determination. For if it is right for a good man to be angry
at the crimes of wicked men, it will also be right for him to be envious
of their prosperity. And what, indeed, seems more unjust than that certain
reprobates should prosper and become the pets of fortune - men for whom
there could be found no fortune bad enough? But the good man will no more
view their blessings with envy than he views their crimes with anger. A
good judge condemns wrongful deeds, but he does not hate them. "What then?"
you say; "when the wise man shall have something of this sort to deal with,
will not his mind be affected by it, will it not be moved from its usual
calm?" I admit that it will; it will experience some slight and superficial
emotion. For as Zeno says: "Even the wise man's mind will keep its scar
long after th ewound has healed." He will
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experience, therefore, certain suggestions and shadows of passion, but
from passion itself he will be free.
Aristotle says a that certain passions, if
one makes a proper use of them, serve as arms. And this would be true if,
like the implements of war, they could be put on and laid aside at the
pleasure of the user. But these "arms" which Aristotle would grant to virtue
fight under their own orders; they await no man's gesture and are not possessed,
but possess. Nature has given to us an adequate equipment in reason; we
need no other implements. This is the weapon she has bestowed; it is strong,
enduring, obedient, not double-edged or capable of being turned against
its owner. Reason is all-sufficient in itself, serving not merely for counsel,
but for action as well. What, really, is more foolish than that reason
should seek protection from anger - that which is steadfast from that which
is wavering, that which is trustworthy from that which is untrustworthy,
that which is well from that which is sick? Even in matters of action,
in which alone the help of anger seems necessary, is it not true that reason,
if left to itself, has far more power? For reason, having decided upon
the necessity of some action, persists in her purpose, since she herself
can discover no better thing to put in her place; therefore her determinations,
once made, stand. But anger is often forced back by pity; for it has no
enduring strength, but is a delusive inflation, violent at the outset.
It is like the winds that rise from off the earth; generated from streams
and marshes they have vehemence, but do not last. So anger begins with
a mighty rush, then breaks down from untimely exhaustion, and though all
its thoughts had been concerned with
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cruelty and unheard-of forms of torture, yet when the time is ripe for
purnishment it has already become crippled and weak. Passion quickly falls,
reason is balanced. But even if anger persists, it will often happen that
having taken the blood of two or three victims it will cease to slay, although
there there more who deserve to die. Its first blows are fierce; so serpents
when they first crawl from their lair are charged with venom, but their
fangs are harmless after they have been drained by repeated biting. Consequently,
not all who have sinned alike are pushed alike, and often he who has committed
the smaller sin receives the greater punishment, because he was subjected
to anger when it was fresh. And anger is altogether unbalanced; it now
rushes farther than it should, now halts sooner than it ought. For it indulges
its own impulses, is capricious in judgement, refuses to listen to evidence,
grants no opportunity for defence, maintains whatever position it has seized,
and is never willing to surrender its judgement even if it is wrong.
Reason grants a hearing to both sides, then
seeks to postpone action, even its own, in order that it may gain time
to sift out the truth; but anger is precipitate. Reason wishes the decision
that it gives to be just; anger wishes to have the decision which it has
giv n seem the just decision. Reason considers nothing except the question
at issue; anger is moved by trifling things that he outside the case. An
overconfident demeanour, a voice too loud, boldness of speech, foppishness
in dress, a pretentious show of patronage, popularity with the public -
these inflame anger. Many times it will condemn the accused because it
hates his lawyer; even if the truth is
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piled up before its very eyes, it loves error and clings to it; it refuses
to be convinced, and having entered upon wrong it counts persistence to
be more honourable than penitence.
There was Gnaeus Piso, whom I can remember;
a man free from many vices, but misguided, in that he mistook inflexibility
a for firmness. Once when he was angry he ordered the execution of a soldier
who had returned from leave of absence without his comrade, on the ground
that if the man did not produce his companion, he had killed him; and when
the soldier asked for a little time to institute a search, the request
was refused. The condemned man was led outside the rampart, and as he was
in the act of presenting his neck, there suddenly appeared the very comrade
who was supposed to have been murdered. Hereupon the centurion in charge
of the execution bade the guardsman sheathe his sword, and led the condemned
man back to Piso in order to free Piso from blame; for Fortune had freed
the soldier. A huge crowd amid great rejoicing in the camp escorted the
two comrades locked in each other's arms. Piso mounted the tribunal in
a rage, and ordered both soldiers to be led to execution, the one who had
done no murder and the one who had escaped it! Could anything have been
more unjust than this? Two were dying because one had been proved innocent.
But Piso added also a third; for he ordered the centurion who had brought
back the condemned man to be executed as well. On account of the innocence
of one man three were appointed to die in the selfsame place. O how clever
is anger in devising excuses for its madness! "You," it says, "I order
to be executed because you were condemned; you,
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because you were the cause of your comrade's condemnation; you, because
you did not obey your commander when, you were ordered to kill." It thought
out three charges because it had grounds for none.
Anger, I say, has this great fault - it refuses
to be ruled.
It is enraged against truth itself if this is shown to be contrary
to its desire. With outcry and uproar and gestures that shake the whole
body it pursues those whom it has marked out, heaping upon them abuse and
curses. Not thus does reason act. But if need should so require, it silently
and quietly wipes out whole families root and branch, and households that
are baneful to the state it destroys together with wives and children;
it tears down their very houses, levelling them to the ground, and exterminates
the very names of the foes of liberty. All this it will do, but with no
gnashing of the teeth, no wild tossing of the head, doing nothing that
would be unseemly for a judge, whose countenance should at no time be more
calm and unmoved than when he is delivering a weighty sentence. "What is
the need," asks Hieronymus, "of biting your own lips before you start
to give a man a thrashing?" What if he had seen a proconsul leap down from
the tribunal, snatch the fasces from the lictor, and tear his own clothes
because some victim's clothes were still untorn! What is to be gained by
overturning the table, by hurling cups upon the floor, by dashing oneself
against pillars, tearing the hair, and smiting the thigh and the breast?
How mighty is the anger, think you, which turns back upon itself because
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desires! And so such men are seized by the bystanders and begged to
become at peace with themselves.
None of these things will he do, who, being
free from anger, imposes upon each one the punishment that he merits. He
will often let a man go free even after detecting his guilt. If regret
for the act warrants fair hope, if he discerns that the Sin does not issue
from the inmost soul of the man, but, so to speak, is only skin-deep, he
will grant him impunity, seeing that it will injure neither the recipient
nor the giver. Sometimes he will ban great crimes less ruthlessly than
small ones, if these, in the one case, were committed not in cruelty but
in a moment of weakness, and, in the other, were instinct with secret,
hidden, and long-practised cunning. To two men guilty of the same offence
he will mete out different punishment, if one sinned through carelessness,
while the other intended to be wicked. Always in every case of punishment
he will keep before him the knowledge that one form is designed to make
the wicked better, the other to remove them; in either case he will look
to the future, not to the past, For as Plato says: "A sensible person
does not punish a man because he has sinned, but in order to keep him from
sin; for while the past cannot be recalled, the future may be forestalled."
And he will openly kill those whom he wishes to have serve as examples
of the wickedness that is slow to yield, not so much that they themselves
may be destroyed as that they may deter ethers from destruction. These
are the things a man must weigh and consider, and you see how free he ought
to be from all emotion when he proceeds to deal with a matter that requires
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utmost caution - the use of power over life and death. 'Tis ill trusting
an angry man with a sword.
And you must not suppose this, either - that
anger contributes anything to greatness of soul. That is not greatness,
it is a swelling; nor when disease distends the body with a mass of watery
corruption is the result growth, but a pestilent excess. All whom frenzy
of soul exalts to powers that are more than human believe that they breathe
forth something lofty and sublime; but it rests on nothing solid, and whatever
rises without a firm foundation is liable to fall. Anger has nothing on
which to stand; it springs from nothing that is stable and lasting, but
is a puffed-up, empty thing, as far removed from greatness of soul as foolhardiness
is from bravery, arrogance from confidence, sullenness from austerity,
or cruelty from sternness. The difference between a lofty and a haughty
soul, I say, is great. Anger aims at nothing splendid or beautiful. On
the other hand, it seems to me to show a feeble and harassed spirit, one
conscious of its own weakness and oversensitive, just as the body is when
it is sick and covered with sores and makes moan at the slightest touch.
Thus anger is a most womanish and childish weakness. "But," you will say,
"it is found in men also." True, for even men may have childish and womanish
natures. "What then?" you cry; "do not the utterances of angry men sometimes
seem to be the utterances of a great soul?" Yes, to those who do not know
what true greatness is. Take the famous words: "Let them hate if only they
fear," which are so dread and shocking that you might know that they
were written in the times of Sulla. I am not sure which wish was worse
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he should be hated or that he should be feared. "Let them hate," quoth he; then he bethinks him that there will come a time when men will curse him, plot against him, overpower him - so what did he add? O may the gods curse him for devising so hateful a cure for hate! "Let them hate" - and then what? "If only they obey?"
No! If only they approve? No! What then? "If only they fear!"
On such terms I should not have wished even to be loved. You think this
the utterance of a great soul? You deceive yourself; for there is nothing
great in it - it is monstrous.
You need put no trust in the words of the
angry, for their noise is loud and threatening, but within, their heart
is very cowardly. Nor need you count as true the saying found in that most
eloquent writer, Titus Livius: "A man whose character was great rather
than good." In character there can be no such separation; it will either
be good or else not great, because greatness of soul, as I conceive it,
is a thing unshakable, sound to the core, uniform and strong from top to
bottom - something that cannot exist in evil natures. Evil men may be terrible,
turbulent, and destructive, but greatness they will never have, for its
support and stay is goodness. Yet by speech, by endeavour, and by all outward
display they will give the impression of greatness; they will make utterances
which vou may think bespeak the great soul, as in the case if Gaius Caesar./b
He grew angry at heaven because its thunder interrupted some pantomimists,
whom he was more anxious to imitate than to watch, and when its thunderbolts
- surely they missed their mark - affrighted his own revels, he challenged
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fight, even to the death, shouting in the words of Homer:
Or uplift me, or I will thee.
What madness! He thought that not even Jove could harm him, or that
he could harm even Jove. I suppose that these words of his had no little
weight in arousing the minds of conspirators; for to put up with a man
who could not put up with Jove seemed the limit of endurance!
There is in anger, consequently, nothing great,
nothing noble, even when it seems impassioned, contemptuous alike of gods
and men. Else let him who thinks that anger reveals the great soul, think
that luxury does the same; it desires to rest on ivory, to be arrayed in
purple, to be roofed with gold, to remove lands, to confine the waters
of the sea, to hurl rivers headlong,/b to hang gardens in the air. Let
him think that avarice also betokens the great soul; it broods over heaps
of gold and silver, it tills fields that are provinces in all but name,
and holds under a single steward broader acres than were allotted once
to consuls. Let him also think that lust betokens the great soul; it swims
across straits, it unsexes lads by the score, and despising death braves
the husband's sword. And let him think that ambition also betokens the
great soul; it is not content with annual office; it would fill the calendar
with only one name if that might be, and set up its memorials throughout
all the world. Such qualities, it matters not to what height or length
they reach, are all narrow, pitiable, grovelling. Virtue alone is lofty
and sublime, and nothing is great that is not at the same time tranquil.
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My first book, Novatus, had a more bountiful theme; for easy is the
descent into the downward course of vice. Now we must come to narrower
matters; for the question is whether anger originates from choice or from
impulse, that is, whether it is aroused of its own accord, or whether,
like much else that goes on within us, it does not arise without our knowledge.
But the discussion must be lowered to the consideration of these things
in order that it may afterwards rise to the other, loftier, themes. For
in our bodies, too, there comes first the system of bones, sinews, and
joints, which form the framework of the whole and are vital parts, yet
are by no means fair to look upon; next the parts on which all the comeliness
of face and appearance depend, and after all these, when the body is now
complete, there is added last that which above all else captivates the
eye, the colour.
There can be no doubt that anger is aroused
by the direct impression of an injury; but the question is whether it follows
immediately upon the impression and springs up without assistance from
the mind, or whether it is aroused only with the assent of the mind.
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Our opinion is that it ventures nothing by itself, but acts only with
the approval of the mind. For to form the impression of having received
an injury and to long to avenge it, and then to couple together the two
propositions that one ought not to have been wronged and that one ought
to be avenged - this is not a mere impulse of the mind acting without our
volition. The one is a single mental process, the other a complex one composed
of several elements; the mind has grasped something, has become indignant,
has condemned the act, and now tries to avenge it. These processes are
impossible unless the mind has given assent to the impressions that moved
it.
"But," you ask, "what is the purpose of such
an inquiry?" I answer, in order that we may know what anger is; for if
it arises against our will, it will never succumb to reason. For all sensations
that do not result from our own volition are uncontrolled and unavoidable,
as, for example, shivering when we are dashed with cold water and recoilment
from certain contacts; bad news makes the hair stand on end, vile language
causes a blush to spread, and when one looks down from a precipice, dizziness
follows. Because none of these things lies within our control, no reasoning
can keep them from happening. But anger may be routed at our behest; for
it is a weakness of the mind that is subject to the will, not one of those
things that result from some condition of the general lot of man and therefore
befall even the wisest, among which must be placed foremost that mental
shock which affects us after we have formed the impression of a wrong committed.
This steals upon us even from the sight of plays upon the stage
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and from reading of happenings of long ago. How often we seem to grow
angry with Clodius for banishing Cicero, with Antony for killing him! Who
is not aroused against the arms which Marius took up, against the proscription
which Sulla used? Who is not incensed against Theodotus and Achillas, and
the child himself who dared an unchildish crime? Singing sometimes stirs
us, and quickened rhythm, and the well-known blare of the War-god's trumpets;
our minds are perturbed by a shocking picture and by the melancholy sight
of punishment even when it is entirely just; in the same way we smile when
others smile, we are saddened by a throng of mourners, and are thrown into
a ferment by the struggles of others. Such sensations, however, are no
more anger than that is sorrow which furrows the brow at sight of a mimic
shipwreck, no more anger than
that is fear which thrills our minds when we read how Hannibal after Cannae
beset the walls of Rome, but they are all emotions of a mind that would
prefer not to be so affected; they are not passions, but the beginnings
that are preliminary to passions. So, too, the warrior in the midst of
peace, wearing now his civilian dress, will prick up his ears at the blast
of a trumpet, and army horses are made restive by the clatter of arms.
It is said that Alexander, when Xenophantus/b played the flute, reached
for his weapons. None of these things which move the mind through the agency
of chance should be called passions; the mind suffers them, so to speak,
rather than causes them. Passion, consequently, does not consist in being
moved by the impressions that are presented to the mind, but in surrendering
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ing up such a chance prompting. For if any one supposes that pallor,
falling tears, prurient itching or deep-drawn sigh, a sudden brightening
of the eyes, and the like, are an evidence of passion and a manifestation
of the mind, he is mistaken and fails to understand that these are disturbances
of the body. And so very often even the bravest man turns pale while he
fits on his arms, the knees of the boldest soldier often tremble a little
when the battle-signal is given, the mighty commander has his heart in
his throat before the battle-lines clash, and while the most eloquent orator
is getting ready to speak, his extremities become rigid, Anger must not
only be aroused but it must rush forth, for it is an active impulse; but
an active impulse never comes without the consent of the will, for it is
impossible for a man to aim at revenge and punishment without the cognizance
of his mind. A man thinks himself injured, wishes to take vengeance, but
dissuaded by some consideration immediately calms down. This I do not call
anger, this prompting of the mind which is submissive to reason; anger
is that which overleaps reason and sweeps it away. Therefore that primary
disturbance of the mind which is excited by the impression of injury is
no more anger than the impression of injury is itself anger; the active
impulse consequent upon it, which has not only admitted the impression
of injury but also approved it, is really anger - the tumult of a mind
proceeding to revenge by choice and determination. There can never be any
doubt that as fear involves flight, anger involves assault; consider, therefore,
whether you believe that anything can either be assailed or avoided without
the mind's assent.
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oft-repeated indulgence and surfeit has arrived at a disregard for mercy
and has expelled from the mind every conception the human bond, it passes
at last into cruelty. And so these men laugh and rejoice and experience
great pleasure, and wear a countenance utterly unlike that of anger, making
a pastime of ferocity. When Hannibal saw a trench flowing with human blood,
he is said to have exclaimed, "O beauteous sight!" How much more beautiful
would it have seemed to him if the blood had filled some river or lake!
What wonder, O Hannibal, if you, born to bloodshed and from childhood familiar
with slaughter, find especial delight in this spectacle? A fortune will
attend you that for twenty years will gratify your cruelty, and will everywhere
supply to your eyes the welcome sight; you will see it at Trasumennus and
at Cannae, and last of all at your own Carthage! Only recently Volesus,
governor of Asia under the deified Augustus, beheaded three hundred persons
in one day, and as he strutted among the corpses with the proud air of
one who had done some glorious deed worth beholding, he cried out in Greek,
"What a kingly act!" But what would he have done if he had been a king?
No, this was not anger, but an evil still greater and incurable. "If,"
some one argues, "virtue is well disposed toward what is honourable, it
is her duty to feel anger toward what is base." What if he should say that
virtue must be both low and great? And yet this is what he does say - he
would have her be both exalted and debased, since joy on account of a right
action is splendid and glorious, while anger on account of another's sin
is mean and narrow-minded.
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And virtue will never be guilty of simulating vice in the act of redressing
it; anger in itself she considers reprehensible, for it is in no way better,
often even worse, than those shortcomings which provoke anger. The distinctive
and natural property of virtue is to rejoice and be glad; it no more comports
with her dignity to be angry than to be sad. But sorrow is the companion
of anger, and all anger comes round to this as the result either of remorse
or of defeat. Besides, if it is the part of a wise man to be angry at sin,
the greater this is the more angry will he be, and he will be angry often;
it follows that the wise man will not only become angry, but will be prone
to anger. But if we believe that neither great anger nor frequent anger
has a place in the mind of a wise man, is there any reason why we should
not free him from this passion altogether? No limit, surely, can be set
if the degree of his anger is to be determined by each man's deed. For
either he will be unjust if he has equal anger toward unequal delinquencies,
or he will be habitually angry if he blazes up every time crimes give him
warrant.
And what is more unworthy of the wise man
than that his passion should depend upon the wickedness of others? Shall
great Socrates lose the power to carry back home the same look he had brought
from home? But if the wise man is to be angered by base deeds, if he is
to be perturbed and saddened by crimes, surely nothing is more woeful than
the wise man's lot; his whole life will be passed in anger and in grief.
For what moment will there be when he will not see something to disapprove
of? Every time he leaves his house, he will have to walk among criminals
and misers and spendthrifts and
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profligates - men who are happy in being such. Nowhere will he turn
his eyes without finding something to move them to indignation. He will
give out if he forces himself to be angry every time occasion requires.
All these thousands hurrying to the forum at break of day - how base their
cases, and how much baser are their advocates! One assails his father's
will, which it were more fitting that he respect; another arraigns his
mother at the bar; another comes as an informer of the very crime in which
he is more openly the culprit; the judge, too, is chosen who will condemn
the same deeds that he himself has committed,
and the crowd, misled by the fine voice of a pleader, shows favour to a
wicked cause.
But why recount all the different types? Whenever
you see the forum with its thronging multitude, and the polling-places
filled with all the gathered concourse, and the great Circus where the
largest part of the populace displays itself, you may be sure that just
as many vices are gathered there as men. Among those whom you see in civilian
garb there is no peace; for a slight reward any one of them can be led
to compass the destruction of another; no one makes gain save by another's
loss; the prosperous they hate, the un prosperous they despise; superiors
they loathe, and to inferiors are loathsome; they are goaded on by opposite
desires; they desire for the sake of some little pleasure or plunder to
see the whole world lost. They live as though they were in a gladiatorial
school - Those with whom they eat, they likewise fight. It is a community
of wild beasts, only that beasts are gentle toward each other and refrain
from tearing their own kind, while men
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glut themselves with rending one another. They differ from the dumb
animals in this alone - that animals grow gentle toward those who feed
them, while men in their madness prey upon the very persons by whom they
are nurtured. Never will the wise
man cease to be angry if once he begins. Every place is full of crime and
vice; too many crimes are committed to be cured by any possible restraint.
Men struggle in a mighty rivalry of wickedness. Every day the desire for
wrong-doing is greater, the dread of it less; all regard for what is better
and more just is banished, lust hurls itself wherever it likes, and crimes
are now no longer covert. They stalk before our very eyes, and wickedness
has come to such a public state, has gained such power over the hearts
of all, that innocence is not rare - it is non- existent. For is it only
the casual man or the few who break the law? On every hand, as if at a
given signal, men rise to level all the barriers of right and wrong:
No guest from host is safe, nor daughter's
sire
From daughter's spouse; e'en brothers' love
is rare.
The husband doth his wife, she him, ensnare;
Ferocious stepdames brew their ghastly banes
The son too soon his father's years arraigns.
And yet how few of all the crimes are these! The poet makes no mention
of the battling camps that claim a common blood, of the parents and the
children sundered by a soldier's oath, of the flames a Roman hand applied
to Rome, of the hostile bands of horsemen that scour the land to find the
hiding-places of citizens proscribed, of springs defiled by poison, of
plague the hand of man has made, of the trench flung around beleaguered
parents, of crowded prisons, of
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fires that burn whole cities to the ground, of baleful tyrannies and
secret plots for regal power and for subversion of the state, of acts that
now are glorified, but still are crimes so long as power endures to crush
them, rape and lechery and the lust that spares not even human mouths.
Add now to these, public acts of perjury between nations, broken treaties,
and all the booty seized when resistance could not save it from the stronger,
the double-dealings, the thefts and frauds and debts disowned - for such
crimes all three forums supply not courts enough! If you expect the wise
man to be as angry as the shamefulness of crimes compels, he must not be
angry merely, but go mad.
This rather is what you should think - that
no one should be angry at the mistakes of men. For tell me, should one
be angry with those who move with stumbling footsteps in the dark? with
those who do not heed commands because they are deaf? with children because
forgetting the observance of their duties they watch the games and foolish
sports of their playmates? Would you want to be angry with those who become
weary because they are sick or growing old? Among the various ills to which
humanity is prone there is this besides - the darkness
that fills
the mind, and not so much the necessity of going astray, as the love of
straying. That you may not be angry with individuals, you must forgive
mankind at large, you must grant indulgence to the human race. If you are
angry with the young and the old because they sin, be angry with babes
as well; they are destined to sin. But who is angry with children who are
still too young to have the power of discrimination? Yet to be a human
being is an even
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greater and truer excuse for error than to be a child. This is the lot
to which we are born - we are creatures subject to as many ills of the
mind as of the body, and though
our power of discernment is neither blunted nor dull, yet we make poor
use of it and become examples of vice to each other. If any one follows
in the footsteps of others who have taken the wrong road, should he not
be excused because it was the public highway that led him astray? Upon
the individual soldier the commander may unsheathe all his sternness, but
he needs must forbear when the whole army deserts. What, then, keeps the
wise man from anger? The great mass of sinners. He understands both how
unjust and how dangerous it is to grow angry at universal sin.
Whenever Heraclitus went forth from his house
and saw all around him so many men who were living a wretched life - no,
rather, were dying a wretched death - he would weep, and all the joyous
and happy people he met stirred his pity; he was gentle- hearted, but too
weak, and was himself one of those who had need of pity. Democritus, on
the other hand, it is said, never appeared in public without laughing;
so little did the serious pursuits of men seem serious to him. Where in
all this is there room for anger? Everything gives cause for either laughter
or tears.
The wise man will have no anger toward sinners.
Do you ask why? Because he knows that no one is born wise but becomes so,
knows that only the fewest in every age turn out wise, because he has fully
grasped the conditions of human life, and no sensible man becomes angry
with nature. Think you a sane man would marvel because apples do not hang
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the brambles of the woodland? Would he marvel because thorns. And briars
are not covered with some useful fruit? No one becomes angry with a fault
for which nature stands sponsor. And so the wise man is kindly and just
toward errors, he is not the foe, but the reformer of sinners, and as he
issues forth each day his thought will be: "I shall meet many who are in
bondage to wine, many who are lustful, many ungrateful, many grasping,
many who are lashed by the frenzy of ambition." He will view all these
things in as kindly a way as a physician views the sick. When the skipper
finds that his ship has sprung her seams and in every part is letting in
a copious flow of water, does he then become angry with the seamen and
with the ship herself? No, he rushes rather to the rescue and shuts out
a part of the flood, a part he bales out, and he closes up the visible
openings, the hidden leaks that secretly let water into the hold he tries
to overcome by ceaseless labour, and he does not relax his effort simply
because as much water springs up as is pumped out. The succour against
continuous and prolific evils must be tenacious, aimed not at their cessation
but against their victory.
"Anger," it is said, "is expedient because
it escapes contempt, because it terrifies the wicked." In the first place,
if the power of anger is commensurate with its threats, for the very reason
that it is terrible it is likewise hated; besides, it is more dangerous
to be feared than to be scorned. If, however, anger is powerless, it is
even more exposed to contempt and does not escape ridicule. For what is
more silly than the futile blustering of anger? In the second place, because
certain things are more
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terrible, they are not for that reason preferable, and I would not have
it said to the wise man: "The wild beast and the wise man have the same
weapon; they are feared." What? Is not a fever feared, the gout, a malignant
sore? And do they for that reason have any good in them? Or are they, on
the contrary, all despised and loathsome and uLTIv. and for this and no
other reason are feared? So anger is in ugly only repulsive and is by no
means to be dreaded, yet most people fear it just as children fear a repulsive
mask. And what of the fact that fear always recoils upon those who inspire
it and that no one who is feared is himself unafraid? You may recall in
this connexion the famous line of Laberius:
Full many he must fear whom many fear,
which when delivered in the theatre/ b in the height of civil war caught
the ear of the whole people as if utterance had been given to the people's
voice. Nature has so ordained it that whatever is mighty through the fear
that others feel is not without its own. How even the lion's heart quakes
at the slightest sound! The boldest of wild beasts is startled by a shadow
or a voice or an unfamiliar smell. Whatever terrifies must also tremble.
There is no reason, then, why any wise man should desire to be feared,
nor should he think that anger is a mighty thing simply because it arouses
dread, since even the most contemptible things, such as poisonous brews/c
and noxious bones/d and bites are likewise feared. Since a cord hung with
feathers will stop the mightiest droves of wild beasts and guide them into
traps, it is not strange that this from the very
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result should be called a "scare "; for to the foolish foolish things
are terrible. The speeding of the race chariot and the sight of its revolving
wheels will drive back lions to their cage, and elephants are terrified
by the squealing of a pig. And so we fear anger just as children fear the
dark and wild beasts fear a gaudy feather. Anger in itself has nothing
of the strong or the heroic, but shallow minds are affected by it. "Wickedness,"
it is said, "must be eliminated from the scheme of nature, if you would
eliminate anger; neither, however, is possible." In the first place, one
can avoid being cold although in the scheme of nature it is winter, and
one can avoid being hot although the hot months are here. A man may either
be protected against the inclemency of the season by a favourable place
of residence, or he may by physical endurance subdue the sensation of both
heat and cold. In the second place, reverse/b this statement: A man must
banish virtue from his heart before he can admit wrath, since vices do
not consort with virtues, and a man can no more be both angry and good
at the same time than he can be sick and well. "But it is not possible,"
you say, "to banish anger altogether from the heart, nor does the nature
of man permit it." Yet nothing is so hard and difficult that it cannot
be conquered by the human intellect and be brought through persistent study
into intimate acquaintance, and there are no passions so fierce and self-willed
that they cannot be subjugated by discipline. Whatever command the mind
gives to itself holds its ground. Some have reached the point of never
smiling, some have cut themselves off from wine, others from sexual pleasure,
others from every kind of drink; another, satisfied by short
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sleep, prolongs his waking hours unwearied; some have learned to run
on very small and slanting ropes, to carry huge burdens that are scarcely
within the compass of human strength, to dive to unmeasured depths and
to endure the sea without any drawing of breath. There are a thousand other
instances to show that persistence surmounts every obstacle and that nothing
is really difficult which the mind enjoins itself to endure. The men I
mentioned a little while ago had either no reward for their unflagging
zeal or none worthy of it - for what glory does he attain who has trained
himself to walk a tight rope, to carry a huge load upon his shoulders,
to withhold his eyes from sleep, to penetrate to the bottom of the sea?
- and yet by effort they attained the end for which they worked although
the remuneration was not great. Shall we, then, not summon ourselves to
endurance when so great a reward awaits us - the unbroken calm of the happy
soul? How great a blessing to escape anger, the greatest of all ills, and
along with it madness, ferocity, cruelty, rage, and the other passions
that attend anger!
It is not for us to seek a defence for ourselves
and an excuse for such indulgence by saying that it is either expedient
or unavoidable; for what vice, pray, has ever lacked its defender? It is
not for you to say that anger cannot be eradicated; the ills from which
we suffer are curable, and since we are born to do right, nature herself
helps us if we desire to be improved. Nor, as some think, is the path to
the virtues steep and rough they are reached by a
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level road. It is no idle tale that I come to tell you. The road to
the happy life is an easy one; do but enter on it - with good auspices
and the good help of the gods themselves! It is far harder to do what you
are now doing. What is more reposeful than peace of mind, what more toilsome
than anger? What is more disengaged than mercy, what more busy than cruelty?
Chastity keeps holiday, while lust is always occupied. In short, the maintenance
of all the virtues is easy, but it is costly to cultivate the vices. Anger
must be dislodged - even those who say that it ought to be reduced admit
this in part; let us be rid of it altogether, it can do us no good. Without
it we shall more easily and more justly abolish crimes, punish the wicked,
and set them upon the better path, The wise man will accomplish his whole
duty without the assistance of anything evil, and he will associate with
himself nothing which needs to be controlled with anxious care.
Wrath is therefore never admissible; sometimes
we must feign it if we have to arouse the sluggish minds of our hearers,
just as we apply goads and brands to arouse horses that are slow in starting
upon their course. Sometimes we must strike fear into the hearts of those
with whom reason is of no avail; yet it is no more expedient to be angry
than to be sad or to be afraid. "What then?" you say; "do not incidents
occur which provoke anger? "Yes, but it is then most of all that we must
grapple with it hand to hand. Nor is it difficult to subdue the spirit,
since even athletes, concerned as they are with man's basest part, nevertheless
endure blows and pain in order that they may drain the strength of their
assailant and strike, not when anger, but
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when advantage, prompts. Pyrrhus, the most famous trainer for gymnastic
contests, made it a rule, it is said, to warn those whom he was training
against getting angry; for anger confounds art and looks only for a chance
to injure. Often, therefore, reason counsels patience, but anger revenge,
and when we have been able to escape our first misfortunes, we are plunged
into greater ones. Some have been cast into exile because they could not
bear calmly one insulting word, and those who had refused to bear in silence
a slight wrong have been crushed with the severest misfortunes, and, indignant
at any diminution of the fullest liberty, have brought upon themselves
the yoke of slavery. "That you may be convinced," says our opponent, that
anger does have in it something noble, you will see that such nations as
are free - for example, the Germans and Scythians - are those which are
most prone to anger." The reason of this is that natures which are inherently
brave and sturdy are prone to anger before they become softened by discipline.
For certain qualities are innate only in better natures, just as rich ground,
although it is neglected, produces a strong growth and a tall forest is
the mark of fertile soil. And so natures that have innate vigour likewise
produce wrath, and being hot and fiery they have no room for anything weak
and feeble, but their energy is defective, as is the case with everything
that springs up without cultivation through the bounty merely of nature
herself; yes, and, unless such natures are quietly tamed, what was a disposition
to bravery tends to become recklessness and temerity. And tell
me, is it not with the more gentle tempers that the milder faults, such
as pity
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and love and bashfulness, are found combined? Accordingly, I can often
prove to you even by a man's own evils that his natural bent is good; but
these evils are none the less vices even though they are indicative of
a superior nature. Then, again, all those peoples which are, like lions
and wolves, free by reason of their very wildness, even as they cannot
submit to servitude, neither can they exercise dominion; for the ability
they possess is not that of a human being but of something wild and ungovernable;
and no man is able to rule unless he can also submit to be ruled. Consequently,
the peoples who have held empire are commonly those who live in a rather
mild climate. Those who lie toward the frozen north have savage tempers
- tempers which, as the poet says, are
Most like their native skies.
"Those animals," you say, "which are much given to
anger are held to be the noblest." But it is wrong for one to hold up the
creatures in whom impulse takes the place of reason as a pattern for a
human being;
in man reason takes the place of impulse. But not even in the case of such
animals is the same impulse equally profitable for all; anger serves the
lion, fear the stag aggressiveness the hawk, cowardice the dove. But what
if it is not even true that it is the best animals that are most prone
to anger? Wild beasts which gain their food by rapine, I can believe, do
so the better the angrier they are; but it is the endurance of the ox and
the horse, obedient to the rein, that I would commend. For what reason,
however, do you direct man to such miserable standards when you have the
universe and God, whom man of all creatures alone com-
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prehends in order that he alone may imitate him "Those who are prone
to anger," you say, "are of all men considered the most ingenuous." Yes,
in contrast with the tricky and the crafty they do seem ingenuous because
they are undisguised. I, however, should call them, not ingenuous, but
reckless; that is the term we apply to fools, to voluptuaries and spendthrifts,
and to all who ill disguise their vices.
"The orator," you say, "at times does better
when he is angry." Not so, but when he pretends to be angry. For the actor
likewise stirs an audience by his declamation not when he is angry, but
when he plays well the role of the angry man; consequently before a jury,
in the popular assembly, and wherever we have to force our will upon the
minds of other people, we must pretend now anger, now fear, now pity, in
order that we may inspire others with the same, and often the feigning
of an emotion produces an effect which would not be produced by genuine
emotion. "The mind that is devoid anger," you say, "is inert." Very true,
unless it is actuated by something more powerful than anger. A man should
be neither a highwayman nor his victim, neither soft-hearted nor cruel;
the one is too mild in spirit, the other too harsh. Let the wise man show
moderation, and to situations that require strong measures let him apply,
not anger, but force.
Having dealt with the questions that arise
concerning anger, let us now pass to the consideration of its remedies.
In my opinion, however, there are but two rules - not to fall into anger,
and in anger to do no wrong. Just as in caring for the body certain rules
are to be observed for guarding the health, others for restoring it, so
we must use one means
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to repel anger, another to restrain it. Tn order that we may avoid anger,
certain rules will be laid down which apply to the whole period of life;
these will fall under two heads - the period of education and the later
periods of life.
The period of education calls for the greatest,
and what will also prove to be the most profitable, attention; for it is
easy to train the mind while it is still tender, but it is a difficult
matter to curb the vices that have grown up with us.
The fiery mind is by its nature most liable
to wratII. For as there are the - four elements of fire, water, air, and
earth, so there are the corresponding properties, the hot, the cold, the
dry, and the moist. Accordingly, the various differences of regions,
of animals, of substances, and of characters are caused by the mingling
of the elements; consequently, also, dispositions show a greater bent in
some one direction, according as they abound in a larger supply of some
one element. Hence it is that we call some regions moist, some dry, some
hot, some cold. The same distinctions apply to animals and to men; it makes
a great difference how much of the moist and the hot each man has in him;
his character will be determined by that element in him of which he will
have a dominant proportion. A fiery constitution of mind will produce wrathful
men, - for fire is active and stubborn; a mixture of cold makes cowards,
for cold is sluggish and shrunken.
Consequently, some of our school hold that anger is aroused in the breast
by the boiling of the blood about the heart; the reason why this particular
spot is assigned to anger is none other than the fact that the warmest
part the whole body is the breast. In the case of those who have more of
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the moist in them, anger grows up gradually because they have no heat
ready at hand but obtain it by movement, and so the anger of children
and women is more vehement than serious, and it is lighter at the start.
In the dry periods of life/b anger is powerful and strong, but is without
increase, showing little gain because cold succeeds heat,/c which is now
on the decline. Old men are simply testy and querulous, as also are invalids
and convalescents and all whose heat has been drained either by exhaustion
or by loss of blood; the same is the condition of those who are gaunt from
thirst and hunger and of those whose bodies are anaemic and ill-nourished
and weak. Wine kindles anger because it increases the heat; some boil over
when they are drunk, others when they are simply tipsy, each according
to his nature. And the only reason why red-haired and ruddy people are
extremely hot-tempered is that they have by nature the colour which others
are wont to assume in anger for their blood is active and restless.
But while nature makes certain persons prone
to anger, there are likewise many accidental causes which are just as effective
as nature. Some are brought into this condition by sickness or injury of
the body, others by toil or unceasing vigils, by nights of anxiety, by
yearnings and the affairs of love; whatever else impairs either body or
mind, produces a diseased mental state prone to complaint. But these are
all only beginnings and causes; habit counts for most, and if this is deep-seated,
it fosters the fault. As for nature, it is difficult to alter it, and we
may not change the elements that were combined once for all at our birth;
but though this be so, it is profitable to know that fiery temperaments
should
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be kept away from wine, which Plato thinks ought to be forbidden to
children, protesting against adding fire to fire. Neither should such men
gorge themselves with food; for their bodies will be distended and their
spirits will become swollen along with the body. They should get exercise
in toil, stopping short of exhaustion, to the end that their heat may be
reduced, but not used up, and that their excessive fever may subside. Games
also will be beneficial; for pleasure in moderation relaxes the mind and
gives it balance. The more moist and the drier natures, and also the cold,
are in no danger from anger, but they must beware of faults that are more
base - fear, moroseness, discouragement, and suspicion. And so such natures
have need of encouragement and indulgence and the summons to cheerfulness.
And since certain remedies are to be employed against anger, others against
sullenness, and the two faults are to be cured, not merely by different,
but even by contrary, methods, we shall always attack the fault that has
become the stronger.
It will be of the utmost profit, I say, to
give children sound training from the very beginning; guidance, however,
is difficult, because we ought to take pains neither to develop in them
anger nor to blunt their native spirit. The matter requires careful watching;
for both qualities -that which should be encouraged and that which should
be checked - are fed by like things, and like things easily deceive even
a close observer. By freedom the spirit grows, by servitude it is crushed;
if it is commended and is led to expect good things of itself, it mounts
up, but these same measures breed insolence and temper; therefore we must
guide the
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child between the two extremes, using now the curb, now the spur.
He should be subjected to nothing that is humiliating, nothing that
is servile; it should never be necessary for him to beg submissively, nor
should begging ever prove profitable - rather let his own desert and his
past conduct and good promise of it in the future be rewarded. In struggles
with his playmates we should not permit him either to be beaten or to get
angry; we should take pains to see that he is friendly toward those with
whom it is his practice to engage in order that in the struggle he may
form the habit of wishing not to hurt his opponent but merely to win. Whenever
he gets the upper hand and does something praiseworthy, we should allow
him to be encouraged but not elated, for joy leads to exultation, exultation
to over- conceit and a too high opinion of oneself. We shall grant him
some relaxation, though we shall not let him lapse into sloth and ease,
and we shall keep him far from all taint of pampering; for there is nothing
that makes the child hot-tempered so much as a soft and coddling bringing
up. Therefore the more an only child is indulged, and the more liberty
a ward is allowed, the more will his disposition be spoiled. He will not
withstand rebuffs who has never been denied anything, whose tears have
always been wiped away by an anxious mother, who has been allowed to have
his own way with his tutor. Do you not observe that with each advancing
grade of fortune there goes the greater tendency to anger? It is especially
apparent in the rich, in nobles, and in officials when all that was light
and trivial in their mind soars aloft upon the breeze of good fortune.
Prosperity fosters wrath when the crowd
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of flatterers, gathered around, whispers to the proud ear: "What, should
that man answer you back? Your estimate of yourself does not correspond
with your importance; you demean yourself " - these and other adulations,
which even the sensible and orginally well-poised mind resists with difficulty.
Childhood, therefore, should be kept far from all contact with flattery;
let a child hear the truth, sometimes even let him fear, let him be respectful
always, let him rise before his elders. Let him gain no request by anger;
when he is quiet let him be offered what was refused when he wept. Let
him, moreover, have the sight but not the use of his parents' wealth. When
he has done wrong, let him be reproved. It will work to the advantage of
children to give them teachers and tutors of a quiet disposition. Every
young thing attaches itself to what is nearest and grows to be like it;
the character of their nurses and tutors is presently reproduced in that
of the young men. There was a boy who had been brought up in the house
of Plato, and when he had returned to his parents and saw his father in
a blustering rage, his comment was: "I never saw this sort of thing at
Plato's." I doubt not that he was quicker to copy his father than he was
to copy Plato! Above all, let his food be simple, his clothing inexpensive,
and his style of living like that of his companions. The boy will never
be angry at some one being counted equal to himself, whom you have from
the first treated as the equal of many.
But these rules apply to our children. In
our case,, however, our lot at birth and our education give no excuse
- the one for the vice, or the other, any longer, for instruction/b; it
is their
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consequences" that we must regulate. We ought, therefore, to make our
fight against the primary causes. Now the cause of anger is an impression
of injury, and to this we should not easily give credence. We ought not
to be led to it quickly even by open and evident acts; for some things
are false that have the appearance of truth. We should always allow some
time; a day discloses the truth. Let us not give ready ear to traducers;
this weakness of human nature let us recognize and mistrust - we are glad
to believe what we are loth to hear, and we become angry before we can
form a judgement about it. And what is to be said when we are actuated,
not merely by charges, but by bare suspicions, and having put the worse
interpretation on another's look or smile, become angry at innocent men?
Therefore we should plead the cause of the absent person against ourselves,
and anger should be held in abeyance; for punishment postponed can still
be exacted, but once exacted it cannot be recalled.
Every one knows the story of the tyrannicide
who having been arrested before he had finished his task was put to torture
by Hippias/b in order that he might be forced to reveal his accomplices;
whereupon he named the friends of the tyrant who were gathered around him,
the very ones to whom, as he knew, the safety of the tyrant was especially
dear. After Hippias had ordered them to be slain one by one, as they were
named, he asked whether there was still any other. "No," said the man,
"you alone remain; for I have left no one else who cares anything about
you." The result of his anger was that the tyrant lent his might to the
tyrant-slayer and slew his own protectors with his own sword.
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How much more courageous was Alexander! After reading a letter from his mother warning him to beware of poison from his physician Philip, he took the draught and drank it without alarm.
In the case of his own friend he trusted himself more. He deserved to
find him innocent, deserved to prove him so! I applaud this all the more
in Alexander because no man was so prone to anger; but the rarer self-control
is among kings, the more praiseworthy it becomes. The great Gaius Caesar
also showed this, he who, victorious in civil war, used his victory most
mercifully; having apprehended some packets of letters written to Gnaeus
Pompeius by those who were believed to belong either to the opposing side
or to the neutral party, he burned them. Although he was in the habit,
within bounds, of indulging in anger, yet he preferred being unable to
do so; he thought that the most gracious form of pardon was not to know
what the offence of each person had been.
Credulity is a source of very great mischief.
Often one should not even listen to report, since under some circumstances
it is better to be deceived than to be suspicious. Suspicion and surmise
- provocations that are most deceptive ought to be banished from the mind.
"That man did not give me a civil greeting; that one did not retum my kiss;
that one broke off the conversation abruptly; that one did not invite me
to dinner; that one seemed to avoid seeing me." Pretext for suspicion will
not be lacking. But there is need of frankness and generosity in interpreting
things. We should believe only what is thrust under our eyes and becomes
unmistakable, and every time our suspicion
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proves to be groundless we should chide our credulity; for this self-reproof
will develop the habit of being slow to believe.
Next, too, comes this - that we should not
be exasperated by trifling and paltry incidents. A slave is too slow, or
the water for the wine a is lukewarm, or the couch-cushion disarranged,
or the table too carelessly set - it is madness to be incensed by such
things. The man is ill or in a poor state of health who shrinks from a
slight draught; something is wrong with a man's eyes if they are offended
by white clothing; the man is enfeebled by soft living who gets a pain
in his side from seeing somebody else at work! The story is that there
was once a citizen of Sybaris, a certain Mindyrides, who, seeing a man
digging and swinging his mattock on high, complained that it made him weary
and ordered the man not to do such work in his sight; the same man complained
that he felt worse because the rose-leaves upon which he had lain were
crumpled! When pleasures have corrupted both mind and body, nothing seems
to be tolerable, not because the suffering is hard, but because the sufferer
is soft. For why is it that we are thrown into a rage by somebody's cough
or sneeze, by negligence in chasing a fly away, by a dog's hanging around,
or by the dropping of a key that has slipped from the hands of a careless
servant? The poor wretch whose ears are hurt by the grating of a bench
dragged across the floor will he be able to bear with equanimity the strife
of public life and the abuse rained down upon him in the assembly or in
the senate- house? Will he be able to endure the hunger and the thirst
of a summer campaign who gets angry at his slave for being careless in
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the snow? Nothing, therefore, is more conducive to anger than the
intemperance and intolerance that comes from soft living; the mind ought
to be schooled by hardship to feel none but a crushing blow.
Our anger is stirred either by those from
whom we could not have received any injury at all, or by those from whom
we might have received one. To the former class belong certain inanimate
things, such as the manuscript which we often hurl from us because it is
written in too small a script or tear up because it is full of mistakes,
or the articles of clothing which we pull to pieces because we do not like
them, But how foolish it is to get angry at these things which neither
deserve our wrath nor feel it! "But of course," you say," it is those who
made them who have given us the affront." But, in the first place, we often
get angry before we make this distinction clear to our minds; in the second
place, perhaps also the makers themselves will have reasonable excuses
to offer: this one could not do better work than he did, and it was not
out of disrespect for you that he was poor at his trade; another did not
aim to affront you by what he did. In the end what can be madder than to
accumulate spleen against men and then vent it upon things? But as it is
the act of a madman to become angry at things without life, it is not less
mad to be angry at dumb animals, which do us no injury because they cannot
will to do so; for there can be no injury unless it arises from design.
Therefore they can barm us just as the sword or a stone may do, but they
cannot injure us. But some people think that a man is insulted when the
same horses which are submissive to one rider are rebellious toward another,
just as if it were due to the animal's
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choice and not rather to the rider's practised skill in management that
certain animals prove more tractable to certain men. But it is as foolish
to be angry with these as it is to be angry with children and all who are
not much different from children in point of wisdom; for in the eyes of
a just judge all such mistakes can plead ignorance as the equivalent of
innocence.
But there are certain agents that are unable to
harm us and have no power that is not beneficent and salutary, as, for
example, the immortal gods, who neither wish nor are able to hurt; for
they are by nature mild and gentle, as incapable of injuring others as
of injuring themselves. Those, therefore,
are mad and ignorant of truth who lay to the gods' charge the cruelty of
the sea, excessive rains, and the stubbornness of winter, whereas all the
while none of the phenomena which harm or help us are planned personally
for us. For
it is not because of us that the universe brings back winter and summer;
these have their own laws, by which the divine plan operates. We have too
high a regard for ourselves if we deem ourselves worthy to be the cause
of such mighty movements. Therefore none of these phenomena takes place
for the purpose of injuring us, nay, on the contrary, they all tend toward
our benefit. I have said that there are certain agents that cannot, certain
ones that would not, harm us.
To the latter class will belong good magistrates and parents, teachers
and judges, and we ought to submit to the chastening they give in the same
spirit in which we submit to the surgeon's knife, a regimen of diet, and
other things which cause suffering that they may bring profit. We have
been visited with
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punishment; then let it bring up the thought, not so much of what we
suffer, as of what we have done; let us summon ourselves to give a verdict
upon our past life; if only we are willing to be frank with ourselves,
we shall assess our fines at a still higher figure.
If we are willing in all matters to play the
just judge, let us convince ourselves first of this - that no one of us
is free from fault. For most of our indignation arises from our saying,
"I am not to blame," " I have done nothing wrong." Say, rather, you admit
nothing wrong. We chafe against the censure of some reprimand or chastisement
although at the very time we are at fault because we are adding to wrong-doing
arrogance and obstinacy. What man is there who can claim that in the eyes
of every law he is innocent? But assuming that this may be, how limited
is the innocence whose standard of virtue is the law! How much more comprehensive
is the principle of duty than that of law! How many are the demands laid
upon us by the sense of duty, humanity, generosity, justice, integrity
- all of which lie outside the statute books! But even under that other
exceedingly narrow definition of innocence we cannot vouch for our claim.
Some sins we have committed, some we have contemplated,
some we have desired, some we have encouraged; in the case of some we are
innocent only because we did not succeed. Bearing this in mind, let us
be more just to transgressors, more heedful to those who rebuke us; especially
let us not be angry with the good (for who will escape if we are to be
angry even with the good?), and least of all with the gods, for it is not
by their power,
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but by the terms of our mortality, that we are forced to suffer whatever
ill befalls. " But," you say, " sickness and pain assail us." at any rate
there must be an ending some time, seeing that we have been given a crumbling
tenement!
It will be said that some one spoke ill of
you consider whether you spoke ill of him first, consider how many there
are of whom you speak ill. Let us consider, I say, that some are not doing
us an injury but repaying one, that others are acting for our good, that
some are acting under compulsion, others in ignorance, that even those
who are acting intentionally and wittingly do not, while injuring us, aim
only at the injury; one slipped into it allured by his wit, another did
something, not to obstruct us, but because he could not reach his own goal
without pushing us back; often adulation, while it flatters, offends. If
any one will recall how often he himself has fallen under undeserved suspicion,
how many of his good services chance has clothed with the appearance of
injury, how many persons whom once be hated he learned to love, he will
be able to avoid all hasty anger, particularly if as each offence occurs
he will first say to himself in silence: " I myself have also been guilty
of this." But where will you find a judge so just? The man who covets everybody's
wife and considers the mere fact that she belongs to another an ample and
just excuse for loving her this same man will not have his own wife looked
at; the strictest enforcer of loyalty is the traitor, the punisher of falsehood
is himself a perjurer, and the trickster lawyer deeply resents an indictment
being brought against himself; the man who has no regard for his own chastity
will permit no tampering with
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that of his slaves. The vices of others we keep before our eyes, our
own behind our back; hence it happens that a father who is even worse
than his son rebukes his son's untimely revels, that a man does not pardon
another's excesses who sets no bound to his own, that the murderer stirs
a tyrant's wrath, and the temple- robber punishes theft. It is not with
the sins but with the sinners that most men are angry. We shall become
more tolerant from self-inspection if we cause ourselves to consider "Have
we ourselves never been guilty of such an act? Have we never made the same
mistake? Is it expedient for us to condemn such conduct?"
The best corrective of anger lies in delay.
Beg this concession from anger at the first, not in order that it may pardon,
but in order that it may judge. Its first assaults are heavy; it will leave
off if it waits. And do not try to destroy it all at once; attacked piecemeal,
it will be completely conquered. Of the things which offend us some are
reported to us, others we ourselves hear or see. As to what is told us,
we should not be quick to believe; many falsify in order that they may
deceive; many others, because they themselves are deceived. One courts
our favour by making an accusation and invents an injury in order to show
that he regrets the occurrence; then there is the man who is spiteful and
wishes to break up binding friendships, and the one who is sharp-tongued
and, eager to see the sport, watches from a safe distance the friends whom
he has brought to blows. If the question of even a small payment should
come before you to be judged, you would require a witness to prove the
claim, the witness would have no weight except on oath, you
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would grant to both parties the right of process, you would allow them
time, you would give more than one hearing; for the oftener you come to
close quarters with truth, the more it becomes manifest. Do you condemn
a friend on the spot? Will you be angry with him before you hear his side,
before you question him, before he has a chance to know either his accuser
or the charge? What, have you already heard what is to be said on both
sides? The man who gave you the information will of his own accord stop
talking if he is forced to prove what he says. "No need to drag me forward,"
he says; "if I am brought forward I shall make denial; otherwise I shall
never tell you anything." At one and the same time he both goads you on
and withdraws himself from the strife and the battle. The man who is unwilling
to tell you anything except in secret has, we may almost say, nothing to
tell. What is more unfair than to give credence secretly but to be angry
openly?
To some offences we can bear witness ourselves;
in such cases we shall search into the character and the purpose of the
offender. Does a child offend? Excuse should be made for his age - he does
not know what is wrong. A father? Either he has been so good to us that
he has the right even to injure us, or mayhap the very act which offends
us is really a service. A woman? It was a blunder. Some one under orders?
What fair- minded person chafes against the inevitable? Some one who has
been wronged? There is no injustice in your having to submit to that which
you were the first to inflict. Is it a judge? You should trust his opinion
more than your own. Is it a king? If he punishes you
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when you are guilty, submit to justice, if when you are innocent, submit
to fortune. A dumb animal perhaps, or something just as dumb? You become
like it if you get angry. Is it a sickness or a misfortune? It will pass
by more lightly if you bear up under it. Is it God? You waste your pains
when you become angry with him as much as when you pray him to be angry
with another. Is it a good man who has done you injury? Do not believe
it. A bad man? Do not be surprised; he will suffer from another the punishment
which is due from you, and he who has sinned has already punished himself.
There are, as I have said, two conditions
under which anger is aroused: first, if we think that we have received
an injury - about this enough has been said; second, if we think that we
have received it unjustly - about this something must now be said. Men
judge some happenings to be unjust because they did not deserve them, some
merely because they did not expect them. What is unexpected we count undeserved.
And so we are mightily stirred by all that happens contrary to hope and
expectation, and this is the only reason why in domestic affairs we are
vexed by trifles, why in the case of friends we call neglect a wrong. "Why,
then," you query, "do the wrongs done by our enemies stir us?" Because
we did not expect them, or at any rate not wrongs so serious. This, in
turn, is due to excessive self-love. We decide that we ought not to be
harmed even by our enemies; each one in his heart has the king's point
of view, and is willing to use license, but unwilling to suffer from it.
And so it is either arrogance or ignorance that makes us prone to anger;
for what is there surprising in wicked men's
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practising wicked deeds? Why is it strange if an enemy injures us, a
friend offends us, a son errs, or a servant blunders? Fabius used to say
that the excuse, "I did not think," was the one most shameful for a commander;
I think it most shameful for any man. Think of everything, expect everything;
even in good characters some unevenness will appear. Human nature begets
hearts that are deceitful, that are ungrateful, that are covetous, that
are undutiful. When you are about to pass judgement on one single man,
s character, reflect upon the general mass.
When you are about to rejoice most, you will
have most to fear. When everything seems to you to be peaceful, the forces
that will harm are not nonexistent, but inactive. Always believe that there
will come some blow to strike you. No skipper is ever so reckless as to
unfurl all his canvas without having his tackle in order for quickly shortening
sail. Above all, bear this in mind, that the power of injury is vile and
detestable and most unnatural for man, by whose kindness even fierce beasts
are tamed. Look how elephants submit their necks to the yoke, how boys
and women alike leap upon bulls/b and tread their backs unhurt, how serpents
crawl in harmless course among our cups and over our laps, how gentle are
the faces of bears and lions when their trainers are inside their cages,
and how wild beasts fawn upon their keeper - we shall blush to have exchanged
characters with the beasts!/c To injure one's country is a crime; consequently,
also, to injure a fellow-citizen - for he is a part of the country, and
if we reverence the whole, the parts are sacred -consequently to injure
any man is a crime, for he is your fellow-citizen in the greater commonwealth.
What
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if the hands should desire to harm the feet, or the eyes the hands?
As all the members of the body are in harmony one with another because
it is to the advantage of the whole that the individual members be unharmed,
so mankind should spare the individual man, because all are born for a
life of fellowship, and society can be kept unharmed only by the mutual
protection and love of its parts.
We would not crush even a viper or a water-snake or any other creature
that harms by bite or sting if we could make them kindly in future, or
keep them from being a source of danger to ourselves and others. Neither,
therefore, shall we injure a man because he has done wrong, but in order
to keep him from doing wrong, and his punishment shall never look to the
past, but always to the future; for that course is not anger, but precaution.
For if every one whose nature is evil and depraved must be punished, punishment
will exempt no one.
"But of course there is some pleasure in anger,"
you say, "and it is sweet to return a smart." Not at all; for it is not
honourable, as in acts of kindness to requite benefits with benefits, so
to requite injuries with injuries. In the one case it is shameful to be
outdone, in the other not to be outdone. "Revenge" is an inhuman word and
yet one accepted aslegitimate, and "retaliation" is not much different
except in rank; the man who returns a smart commits merely the more pardonable
sin. Once when Marcus Cato was in the public bath, a certain man, not
knowing him, struck him unwittingly; for who would knowingly have done
injury to that great man? Later, when the man was making apology, Cato
said, I do not recall that I received
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a blow." It was bettor, he thought, to ignore the incident than to resent
it. "Then the fellow," you ask, "got no punishment for such an act of rudeness?"
No, but much good - he began to know Cato. Only a great soul can be superior
to injury; the most humiliating kind of revenge is to have it appear that
the man was not worth taking revenge upon. Many have taken slight injuries
too deeply to heart in the act of revenging them. He is a great and noble
man who acts as does the lordly wild beast that listens unconcernedly to
the baying of tiny dogs. "If we avenge an injury," you say, "we shall be
less subject to contempt." If we must must resort to a remedy let us do
so without anger - not with the plea that revenge is sweet, but that it
is expedient; it is often, however, better to feign ignorance of an act
than to take vengeance for it. Injuries from the more powerful must be
borne, not merely with submission, but even with a cheerful countenance;
they will repeat the offence if they are convinced that they have succeeded
once. Men whose spirit has grown arrogant from the great favour of fortune
have this most serious fault - those whom they have injured they also hate.
The words of the man who had grown old in doing homage to kings are familiar
to all. When some one asked him how he had attained what was so rarely
achieved at court, namely old age, he replied, "By accepting injuries and
returning thanks for them." So far from its being expedient to avenge injuries,
it is often inexpedient even to acknowledge them. Gaius Caesar, offended
with the son of Pastor, a distinguished, Roman knight, because of his foppishness
and his too elaborately dressed hair, sent him to
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prison; when the father begged that his son's life might be spared,
Caesar, just as if he had been reminded to punish him, ordered him to be
executed forthwith; yet in order not to be wholly brutal to the father,
he invited him to dine with him that day. Pastor actually came and showed
no reproach in his countenance. Caesar, taking a cup, proposed his health
and set some one to watch him; the poor wretch went tbrough with it, although
he seemed to be drinking the blood of his Son. Caesar then sent him perfume
and garlands of flowers and gave orders to watch whether he used them:
he used them. On the very day on which he had buried - no, before he had
yet buried - his son, he took his place among a hundred dinner-guests,
and, old and gouty as he was, drained a draught of wine that would scarce
have been a seemly potion even on the birthday of one of his children,
all the while shedding not a single tear nor by any sign suffering his
grief to be revealed; at the dinner he acted as if he had obtained the
pardon he had sought for his son. Do you ask why? He had a sccond son.
And what did great Priam do? Did he not disguise his anger and embrace
the knees of the king? Did he not carry to his lips the murderous hand
all stained with the blood of his son? Did he not dine? True, but there
was no perfume for him, no garlands, and his bloodthirsty enemy with many
soft words pressed him to take food, and did not force him to drain huge
beakers while some one stood over him to watch. The Roman father you would
have despised if his fears had been for himself; as it was, affection curbed
his anger. He deserved to be permitted to leave the banquet in order that
he might gather up the bones of his son, but that
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striplng prince, all the while so kindly and polite, did not permit
even this; pledging the old man's health again and again, he tortured him
by urging him to lighten his sorrow, while on the other hand the father
made a show of being happy and oblivious of all that had been done that
day. The other son was doomed, had the guest displeased the executioner.
We must, therefore, refrain from anger, whether
he be an equal or a superior or an inferior who provokes its power. A contest
with one's equal is hazardous, with a superior mad, with an inferior degrading.
It is a petty and sorry person who will bite back when he is bitten. Mice
and ants, if you bring your head near them, do turn at you; feeble creatures
think they are hurt if they are only touched. It will make us more kindly
if we remember the benefit we once received from him who now provokes our
anger, and let his kindnesses atone for his offence. Let us also bear in
mind how much approval we shall gain from a reputation for forbearance,
how many have been made useful friends through forgiveness. From the examples
of Sulla's cruelty comes. the lesson that we should feel no anger toward
the children of personal and political enemies, since he removed from the
state even the children of the proscribed. There is no greater injustice
than to make a man the inheritor of hatred borne toward his father. Whenever
we are loth to pardon, let us consider whether we ourselves should benefit
if all men were inexorable. How often has he who refused forgiveness sought
it! How often has he grovelled at the feet of the man whom he had repulsed
from his own! What is more splendid than to exchange
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anger for friendship? What more faithful allies does the Roman people
possess than those who were once its most stubborn foes? Where would the
empire be today had not a sound foresight united the victors and the vanquished
into one? Does a man get angry? Do you on the contrary challenge him with
kindness. Animosity, if abandoned by one side, forthwith dies; it takes
two to make a fight. But if anger shall be rife on both sides, if the conflict
comes, he is the better man who first withdraws; the vanquished is the
one who wins. If some one strikes you, step back; for by striking back
you will give him both the opportunity and the excuse to repeat his blow;
when you later wish to extricate yourself, it will be impossible.
Would any one want to stab an enemy with such
force as to leave his own hand in the wound and be unable to recover himself
from the blow? But such a weapon is anger; it is hard to draw back. We
take care to have light arms, a handy and nimble sword; shall we not avoid
those mental outbursts that are clumsy, unwieldy, and beyond control? The
only desirable speed is that which will check its pace when ordered, which
will not rush past the appointed goal, and can be altered and reduced from
running to a walk; when our muscles twitch against our will, we know that
they are diseased; he who runs when he tries to walk is either old or broken
in body. In the operations of the mind we should deem those to be the sanest
and the soundest which will start at our pleasure, not rush on at their
own.
Nothing, however, will prove as profitable
as to consider first the hideousness of the thing, and then its danger.
No other emotion has an outward aspect
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so disordered: it makes ugly the most beautiful faces; through it the
most peaceful countenance becomes transformed and fierce; from the angry
all grace departs; if they were well-kempt and modish in their dress, they
will let their clothing trail and cast off all regard for their person;
if their hair was disposed by nature or by art in smooth and becoming style,
it bristles up in sympathy with their state of mind; the veins swell, the
breast will be racked by incessant panting, the neck will be distended
by the frantic outrush of the voice; then the limbs tremble, the hands
are restless, the whole body is agitated. What state of mind, think you,
lies within when its outward manifestation is so horrible? Within the man's
breast how much more terrible must be the expression, how much fiercer
the breathing, how much more violent the strain of his fury, that would
itself burst unless it found an outburst! As is the aspect of an enemy
or wild beasts wet with the blood of slaughter or bent upon slaughter;
as are the hellish monsters of the poet's brain, all girt about with snakes
and breathing fire; as are those most hideous shapes that issue forth from
hell to stir up wars and scatter discord among the peoples and tear peace
all to shreds; as such let us picture anger - its eyes aflame with fire,
blustering with hiss and roar and moan and shriek and every other noise
more hateful still if such there be, brandishing weapons in both hands
(for it cares naught for self-protection!), fierce and bloody, scarred,
and black and blue from its own blows, wild in gait, enveloped in deep
darkness, madly charging, ravaging and routing, in travail with hatred
of all men, especially of itself, and ready to overturn earth and sea and
sky
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if it can find no ether way to harm, equally hating and hated. Or, if
you will, let us take the picture from our poets:
Flaunting her bloody scourge the War-dame
strides,
Or Discord glorying in her tattered
robe.
Or make you any other picture of this dread passion that can be devised
still more dread.
As Sextius remarks, it has been good for some
people to see themselves in a mirror while they are angry the great change
in themselves alarmed them; brought, as it were, face to face with the
reality they did not recognize themselves. And how little of the real ugliness
did that image reflected in the mirror disclose! If the soul could be shown,
if it were in some substance through which it might shine, its black and
mottled, inflamed, distorted and swollen appearance would confound us as
we gazed upon it. Even as it is, though it can only come to the surface
through flesh, bones, and so many obstacles, its hideousness is thus great
- what if it could be shown stark naked? You may perhaps think that no
one has really been frightened out of anger by a mirror. Well, what then?
The man who had gone to the mirror in order to effect a change in himself
was already a changed man; while men remain angry no image is more beautiful
than one which is fierce and savage, and such as they are they wish also
to appear.
This, rather, is what we ought to realize
- how many men anger in and of itself has injured. Some through too much
passion have burst their veins, a shout that strains our strength has carried
with it blood, and too powerful a rush of tears to the eyes
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has blurred the sharpness of their vision, and sickly people have fallen
back into illnesses. There is no quicker road to madness. Many, therefore,
have continued in the frenzy of anger, and have never recovered the reason
that had been unseated. It was frenzy that drove Ajax to
his death and anger drove him into frenzy. These all call down death upon
their children, poverty upon themselves, destruction upon their house,
and they deny that they are angry just as the frenzied deny that they are
mad. They become enemies to their closest friends and have to be shunned
by those most dear; regardless of all law except as a means to injure,
swayed by trifles, difficult to approach by either word or kindly act,
they conduct themselves always with violence and are ready either to fight
with the sword or to fall upon it. For the fact is that the greatest
of all evils, the vice that surpasses all others, has laid bold upon them.
Other ills come gradually, but the power of this is sudden and complete.
In short, it brings into subjection all other passions.
It conquers the most ardent love, and so in anger men have stabbed
the bodies that they loved and have lain in the arms of those whom they
had slain; avarice, the most stubborn and unbending evil, has been trodden
under foot by anger after being forced to scatter her wealth and to set
fire to her home and all her collected treasure. Tell me, has not also
the ambitious man torn off the highly prized insignia of his office and
rejected the honour that had been conferred? There is no passion of any
kind over which anger does not hold mastery.
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WE shall now, Novatus, attempt to do what you have especially desired
- we shall try to banish anger from the mind, or at least to bridle and
restrain its fury. This must be done sometimes plainly and openly, whenever
a slighter attack of the malady makes this possible, sometimes secretly,
when its flame burns hot and every obstacle but intensifies and increases
its power; it depends upon how much strength and vigour it has whether
we ought to beat back its attack and force a retreat, or should yield before
it until the first storm of its fury has passed, in order to keep it from
sweeping along with it the very means of relief.
Each man's character will have to determine his
plan of action: some men yield to entreaty; some trample and stamp upon
those who give way, and we shall quiet these by making them fear; some
are turned from their course by reproof, others by a confession of guilt,
others by shame, others by procrastination - a slow remedy, this last,
for a swift disorder, to be used only as a last resort. For while the other
passions admit of postponement and may
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be cured more leisurely, this one in hurried and selfdriven violence
does not advance by slow degrees, but becomes full-grown the moment it
begins; and, unlike the other vices, it does not seduce but abducts the
mind, and it goads on those that, lacking all self-control, desire, if
need be, the destruction of all, and its fury falls not merely upon the
objects at which it aims, but upon all that meet it by the way. The other
vices incite the mind, anger overthrows it. Even if a man may not resist
his passions, yet at least the passions themselves may halt; anger intensifies
its vehemence more and more, like the lightning's stroke, the hurricane,
and the other things that are incapable of control for the reason
that they not merely move, but fall. Other vices are a revolt against intelligence,
this against sanity; the others approach gently and grow up unnoticed,
but the mind plunges headlong into anger. Therefore no more frenzied state
besets the mind, none more reliant upon its own power, none more arrogant
if it is successful, none more insane if it is baffled; since it is not
reduced to weariness even by defeat, if chance removes its foe it turns
its teeth upon itself. And the source from which it springs need not be
great; for rising from most trivial things it mounts to monstrous size.
It passes by no time of life, makes exception
of no class of men. Some races by the blessing of poverty know nothing
of luxury; some because they are restless and wandering have escaped sloth;
the uncivilized state of some and their rustic mode of life keep them strangers
to trickery and deception and all the evil that the forum breeds.
But there lives no race that does not feel the goad of anger,
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which masters alike both Greeks and barbarians, and is no less ruinous
to those who respect the law than to those who make might the only measure
of their right. Lastly, though the other vices lay hold of individual men,
this is the only passion that can at times possess a whole state. No entire
people has ever burned with love for a woman, no whole state has set its
hope upon money or gain; ambition is personal and seizes upon the individual;
only fury is an affliction of a whole people. Often in a single mass they
rush into anger; men and women, old men and boys, the gentry and the rabble,
are all in full accord, and the united body, inflamed by a very few incendiary
words, outdoes the incendiary himself; they fly forthwith to fire and sword,
and proclaim war against their neighbours or wage it against their countrymen;
whole houses are consumed, root and branch, and the man who but lately
was held in high esteem and applauded for his eloquence receives now the
anger of his following; legions hurl their javelins upon their own commanders;
all the commoners are at discord with the nobles; the senate, the high
council of the state, without waiting to levy troops, without appointing
a commander, chooses impromptu agents of its wrath, and hunting down its
high-born victims throughout the houses of the city, takes punishment in
its own hand; embassies are outraged, the law of nations is broken, and
unheard of madness sweeps the state, and no time is given for the public
ferment to subside, but fleets are launche
d forthwith and loaded with hastily gathered troops; without training,
without auspices, under the leadership of its own anger, the populace goes
forth, snatching up for arms whatever chance has offered, and then atones
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for the rash daring of its anger by a great disaster. Such is the outcome,
when barbarians rush haphazard into war; the moment their excitable minds
are roused by the semblance of injury, they are forthwith in action, and
where their resentment draws them, like an avalanche they fall upon our
legions - all unorganized, unfearful, and unguarded, seeking their own
destruction; with joy they are struck down, or press forward upon the sword,
or thrust their bodies upon the spear, or perish from a self-made wound.
"There can be no doubt," you say, "that such
a force is powerful and pernicious; show, therefore, how it is to be cured."
And yet, as I said in my earlier books, Aristotle stands forth as the defender of anger, and forbids us to cut it out; it is, he claims, a spur to virtue, and if the mind is robbed of it, it becomes defenceless and grows sluggish and indifferent to high endeavour. Therefore our first necessity is to prove its foulness and fierceness, and to set before the eyes what an utter monster a man is when he is enraged against a fellow-man, with what fury he rushes on working destruction destructive of himself as well and wrecking what cannot be sunk unless he sinks with it.
Tell me, then, will any one call the man sane who, just as if seized
by a hurricane, does not walk but is driven along, and is at the mercy
of a raging demon, who entrusts not his revenge to another, but himself
exacts it, and thus, bloodthirsty alike in purpose and in deed, becomes
the murderer of those persons who are dearest and the destroyer of those
things for which, when lost, he is destined ere long to weep? Can any one
assign this passion to virtue as its supporter and consort
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when it confounds the resolves without which virtue accomplishes nothing?
Transient and baneful, and potent only for its own harm, is the strength
which a sick man acquires from the rising of his fever. Therefore when
I decry anger on the assumption that men are not agreed a in their estimate
of it, you are not to think that I am wasting time on a superfluous matter;
for there is one, and he, too, a distinguished philosopher, who ascribes
to it a function, and on the ground that it is useful and conducive to
energy would evoke it for the needs of battle, for the business of state
- for any undertaking, in fact, that requires some fervour for its accomplishment.
To the end that no one may be deceived into supposing that at any time,
in any place, it will be profitable, the unbridled and frenzied madness
of anger must be exposed, and there must be restored to it the trappings
that are its very own - the torture-horse, the cord, the jail, the cross,
and fires encircling living bodies implanted in the ground, the drag-hook
that seizes even corpses, and all the different kinds of chains and the
different kinds of punishment, the rending of limbs, the branding of foreheads,
the dens of frightful beasts - in the midst of these her implements let
anger be placed, while she hisses forth her dread and hideous sounds, a
creature more loathsome even than all the instruments through which she
vents her rage.
Whatever doubt there may be concerning anger
in other respects, there is surely no other passion whose countenance is
worse - that countenance which we have pictured in the earlier books/b
- now harsh and fierce, now pale b
and seemingly steeped in blood when all the heat and fire of the body
has been turned toward the face, with swollen veins, with eyes now restless
and darting, now fastened and motionless in one fixed gaze; mark, too,
the sound of clashing teeth, as if their owners were bent on devouring
somebody, like the noise the wild boar makes when he sharpens his tusks
by rubbing; mark the crunching of the joints as the hands are violently
crushed together, the constant beating of the breast, the quick breathing
and deep-drawn sighs, the unsteady body, the broken speech and sudden outcries,
the lips now trembling, now tight and hissing out a curse. Wild beasts,
I swear, whether tormented by hunger or by the steel that has pierced their
vitals - even when, half dead, they rush upon their hunter for one last
bite - are less hideous in appearance than a man inflamed by anger. If
you are free to listen to his cries and threats, hear what language issues
from his tortured soul!
Will not everyone be glad to check any impulse to anger when he realizes
that it begins by working harm, first of all, to himself? If there are
those who grant full sway to anger and deem it a proof of power, who count
the opportunity of revenge among the great blessings of great estate, would
you not, then, have me remind them that a man cannot be called powerful
-no, not even free - if he is the captive of his anger? To the end that
each one may be more careful and may set a guard upon himself, would you
not have me remind him that while other base passions affect only the worst
type of men, wrath steals upon those also who are enlightened and otherwise
sane? So true is this, that there are some who call wrath a sign of in-
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genuousness, and that it is commonly believed that the best-
natured people are most liable to it!
" What," you say, "is the purpose of this?"
That no man may consider himself safe from anger, since it summons even
those who are naturally kind and gentle into acts of cruelty and violence.
As soundness of body and a careful regard for health avail nothing against
the plague - for it attacks indiscriminately the weak and the strong -
so calm and languid natures are in no less danger from anger than the more
excitable sort, and the greater the change it works in these, the greater
is their disgrace and danger. But since the first requirement is not to
become angry, the second, to cease from anger, the third, to cure also
the anger of others, I shall speak first of how we may avoid falling into
anger, next of how we may free ourselves from it, and lastly of how we
may curb an angry man - how we may calm him and restore him to sanity.
We shall forestall the possibility of anger
if we repeatedly set before ourselves its many faults and shall rightly
appraise it. Before our own hearts we must arraign it and convict it; we
must search out its evils and drag them into the open; in order that it
may be shown as it really is, it should be compared with all that is worst.
Man's avarice assembles and gathers wealth for some one who is better to
use; but anger is a spender -few indulge in it without cost. How many slaves
a master's anger has driven to flight, how many to death! How much more
serious was his loss from indulging in anger than was the incident which
caused it! Anger brings to a father grief, to a husband divorce, to a magistrate
hatred, to a candidate defeat. It is worse
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than wantonness, since that finds satisfaction in its own enjoyment,
this in another's pain. It exceeds spite and envy; for they desire a man
to be unhappy, while anger tries to make him so; they delight in the ills
that chance may bring, while it cannot wait for chance - to the man it
hates it not merely wishes harm to come, but brings it. There is nothing
more baleful than enmity, yet it is anger that breeds it; nothing is more
deadly than war, yet in that the anger of the powerful finds its vent;
none the less anger in the common folk or private persons is also war -
war without arms and without resources. Moreover, leaving out of account
the immediate consequences that will come from anger, such as losses of
money, plots, and the never-ending anxiety of mutual strife, anger pays
for the penalty it exacts - it renounces human nature, which incites to
love, whereas it incites to hate; which bids us help, whereas it bids us
injure. And besides, though its chafing originates in an excess of self-
esteem and seems to be a show of spirit, it is petty and narrow- minded;
for no man can fail to be inferior to the one by whom he regards himself
despised. But the really great mind, the mind that has taken the true measure
of itself, fails to revenge injury only because it fails to perceive it.
As missiles rebound from a hard surface, and the man who strikes solid
objects is hurt by the impact, so no injury whatever can cause a truly
great mind to be aware of it, since the injury is more fragile than that
at which it is aimed. How much more glorious it is for the mind, impervious,
as it were, to any missile, to repel all insults and injuries! Revenge+
is the confession of a hurt; no mind is truly great that
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in another to be splashed, so in this diverse and restless activity
of life many hindrances befall us and many occasions for complaint. Our
hopes one man deceives, another defers, another destroys; our projects
do not proceed as they were planned. To no man is Fortune so wholly submissive
that she will always respond if often tried. The result is, consequently,
that when a man finds that some of his plans have turned out contrary to
his expectations, he becomes impatient with men and things, and on the
slightest provocation becomes angry now with a person, now with his calling,
now with his place of abode, now with his luck, now with himself. In order,
therefore, that the mind may have peace, it must not be tossed about, it
must not, as I have said, be wearied by activity in many or great affairs,
or by attempting such as are beyond its powers. It is easy to fit the shoulders
to light burdens, and to shift the load from this side to that without
slipping; but it is hard to support what others' hands have laid upon us,
and exhausted we cast the load upon a neighbour. Even while we stand beneath
the burden, we stagger if we are too weak to bear its weight. In public
and in private affairs, be sure, the same condition holds. Light and easy
tasks accept the control of the doer; those that are heavy and beyond the
capacity of the performer are not easily mastered; and if they are undertaken,
they outweigh his efforts and run away with him, and just when he thinks
he has them in his grasp, down they crash and bring him down with them.
So it happens that the man who is unwilling to approach easy tasks, yet
wishes to find easy the tasks he approaches, is often disappointed in his
desire. Whenever you would
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their fierceness is blunted and gradually amid peaceful conditions is
forgotten. Moreover, the man who lives with tranquil people not only becomes
better from their example, but finding no occasions for anger he does not
indulge in his weakness. It will, therefore, be a man's duty to avoid all
those who he knows will provoke his anger. "Just whom do you mean?" you
ask. There are many who from various causes will produce the same result.
The proud man will offend you by his scorn, the caustic man by an insult,
the forward man by an affront, the spiteful man by his malice, the contentious
by his wrangling, the windy liar by his hollowness; you will not endure
to be feared by a suspicious man, to be outdone by a stubborn one, or to
be despised by a coxcomb. Choose frank, good-natured, temperate people,
who will not call forth your anger and yet will bear with it. Still more
helpful will be those who are yielding and kindly and suave - not, however,
to the point of fawning, for too much cringing incenses hot-tempered people.
I, at any rate, had a friend, a good man, but too prone to anger, whom
it was not less dangerous to wheedle than to curse. It is well known that
Caelius, the orator, was very hot-tempered. A client of rare forbearance
was, as the story goes, once dining with Caelius in his chamber, but it
was difficult for him, having got into such close quarters, to avoid a
quarrel with the companion at his side; so he decided that it was best
to agree with whatever Caelius said and to play up to him. Caelius, however,
could not endure his compliant attitude, and cried out, "Contradict me,
that there may be two of us!" But even he, angry because he was not angered,
quickly subsided when
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he had no antagonist. Consequently, if we are conscious of being hot-tempered,
let us rather pick out those who will be guided by our looks and by our
words. Such men, it is true, will pamper us and lead us into the harmful
habit of hearing nothing that we do not like, but there will be the advantage
of giving our weakness a period of respite. Even those who are churlish
and intractable by nature will endure caressing; no creature is savage
and frightened if you stroke it. Whenever a discussion tends to be too
long or too quarrelsome, let us check it at the start before it gains strength.
Controversy grows of itself and holds fast those that have plunged in too
deeply. It is easier to refrain than to retreat from a struggle.
Hot-tempered people should also abstain from
the more burdensome pursuits, or at least should not ply these to the point
of exhaustion, and the mind should not be engaged by too many interests,
but should surrender itself to such arts as are pleasurable. Let it be
soothed by the reading of poetry and gripped by the tales of history; it
should be much coddled and pampered. Pythagoras used to calm his troubled
spirit with the lyre; and who does not knnow that the clarion and the trumpet
act as incitements to the mind, and that, similarly, certain songs are
a soothing balm that brings it relaxation? Green things are good for disordered
eyes, and certain colours are restful to weak vision, while by the brightness
of others it is blinded, So pleasant pursuits soothe the troubled mind.
We should shun the courts, court appearances, and trials, and everything
that aggravates our weakness, and we should equally guard against physical
exhaustion; for this destroy's what-
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ever gentleness and mildness we have and engenders sharpness. Those,
therefore, who distrust their digestion, before they proceed to the performance
of tasks of unusual difficulty, allay their bile with food; for fatigue
especially arouses the bile, possibly because it drives the body's heat
toward the centre, vitiates the blood, and stops its circulation by clogging
the veins, or because the body when it is worn and feeble weighs down the
mind. For the same reason, undoubtedly, those who are broken by ill-health
and age are more irascible than others. Hunger and thirst also, for the
same reasons, must be avoided; they exasperate and irritate the mind. There
is an old proverb that "the tired man seeks a quarrel," but it applies
just as well to the hungry and thirsty man, and to any man who chafes under
something. For just as a bodily sore hurts under the slightest touch, afterwards
even at the suggestion of a touch, so the disordered mind takes offence
at the merest trifles, so that even, in the case of some people, a greeting,
a letter, a speech, or a question provokes a dispute. There will always
be a protest if you touch a sore spot. It is best, therefore, to treat
the malady as soon as it is discovered; then, too, to allow oneself the
least possible liberty of speech, and to check impulsiveness. It is easy,
moreover, to detect one's passion as soon as it is born; sickness is preceded
by symptoms. Just as the signs of storm and rain appear before the storms
themselves, so there are certain forerunners of anger, of love, and of
all those tempests that shake the soul. Those who are subject to fits ofepilepsy+
know that the attack is coming on if heat leaves their extremities, if
their sight wavers,
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if there is a twitching of the muscles, or if memory forsakes them and the head swims; therefore by customary remedies they try to forestall the disease in its incipiency, and they ward off whatever it is that causes unconsciousness by smelling or tasting something, or they battle against cold and stiffness with hot applications; or if the remedy is of no avail, they escape from the crowd and fall where no one may see. It is well to understand one's malady and to break its power before it spreads.
Let us discern what it is that especially irritates us. One man is stirred
by insulting words, another by insulting actions; this man craves respect
for his rank, this one for his person; this one wishes to be considered
a fine gentleman, that one a fine scholar; this one cannot brook arrogance,
this one obstinacy; that one does not think his slaves worthy of his wrath,
this one is violent inside his house and mild outside; that man considers
it a disgrace to be put up for office, this one an insult not to be put
up. We are not all wounded at the same spot; therefore you ought to know
what your weak spot is in order that you may especially protect it. It
is well not to see everything, not to hear everything. Many affronts may
pass by us; in most cases the man who is unconscious of them escapes them.
Would you avoid being provoked? Then do not be inquisitive, He who tries
to discover what has been said against him, who unearths malicious gossip
even if it was privately indulged in, is responsible for his own disquietude.
There are words which the construction put upon them can make appear an
insult; some, therefore, ought to be put aside, others derided, others
condoned. In various
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ways anger must be circumvented; most offences may be turned into farce
and jest. Socrates, it is said, when once he received a box on the ear,
merely declared that it was too bad that a man could not tell when he ought
to wear a helmet while taking a walk. Not how an affront is offered, but
how it is borne is our concern; and I do not see why it is difficult to
practise restraint, since I know that even despots, though their hearts
were puffed up with success and privilege, have nevertheless repressed
the cruelty that was habitual to them. At any rate, there is the story
handed down about Pisistratus, the Athenian despot - that once when a tipsy
table-guest had declaimed at length about his cruelty, and there was no
lack of those who would gladly place their swords at the service of their
master, and one from this side and another from that supplied fuel to the
flame, the tyrant, none the less, bore the incident calmly, and replied
to those who were goading him on that he was no more angry at the man than
he would be if some one ran against him blindfold. A great many manufacture
grievances either by suspecting the untrue or by exaggerating the trivial.
Anger often comes to us, but more often we go to it. It should never be
invited; even when it falls upon us, it should be repulsed. No man ever
says to himself, "I myself have done, or at least might have done, this
very thing that now makes me angry"; no one considers the intention of
the doer, but merely the deed. Yet it is to the doer that we should give
thought -whether he did it intentionally or by accident, whether under
compulsion or by mistake, whether he was led on by hatred or by the
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hope of reward, whether he was pleasing himself or lending aid to another.
The age of the offender counts for something, his station for something,
so that to tolerate or to submit becomes merely indulgence or deference.
Let us put ourselves in the place of the man with whom we are angry; as
it is, an unwarranted opinion of self makes us prone to anger, and we are
unwilling to bear what we ourselves would have been willing to inflict.
No one makes himself wait; yet the best cure for anger is waiting, to allow
the first ardour to abate and to let the darkness that clouds the reason
either subside or be less dense. Of the offences which were driving you
headlong, some an hour will abate, to say nothing of a day, some will vanish
altogether; though the postponement sought shall accomplish nothing else,
yet it will be evident that judgement now rules instead of anger. If ever
you want to find out what a thing really is, entrust it to time; you can
see nothing clearly in the midst of the billows. Plato once, when he was
angry with his slave, was unable to impose delay upon himself, and, bent
upon flogging him with his own hand, ordered him forthwith to take off
his shirt and bare his shoulders for the blows; but afterwards realizing
that he was angry he stayed his uplifted hand, and just as he was stood
with his band in the air like one in the act of striking. Later, when a
friend who happened to come in asked him what he was doing, he said, "I
am exacting punishment from an angry man." As if stunned he maintained
that attitude, unbecoming to a philosopher, of a man in the act of venting
his passion, forgetful now of the slave since he had found another whom
he was more anxious to punish. He therefore denied
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himself all power over his own household, and once, when he was deeply
provoked at some fault, he said, "Do you, Speusippus, punish this dog of
a slave with a whip, for I am angry." His reason for not striking was the
very reason that would have caused another to strike. "I am angry," said
he; "I should do more than I ought, and with too much satisfaction; this
slave should not be in the power of a master who is not master of himself."
Can any one
wish to entrust punishment to an angry man when even Plato denied himself
this authority? Let nothing be lawful to you while you are angry. Do you
ask why? Because then you wish everything to be lawful.
Fight against yourself! If you will to conquer
anger, it cannot conquer you. If it is kept out of sight, if it is given
no outlet, you begin to conquer. Let us conceal the signs, and so far as
it is possible let us keep it hidden and secret. We shall have great trouble
in doing this, for it is eager to leap forth and fire the eyes and transform
the countenance; but if we allow it to show itself outside of us, at once
it is on top of us. It should be kept hidden in the deepest depths of the
heart and it should not drive, but be driven; and more, all symptoms of
it let us change into just the opposite. Let the countenance be unruffled,
let the voice be very gentle, the step very slow; gradually the inner man
conforms itself to the outer. In the case of Socrates, it was a sign of
anger if he lowered his voice and became sparing of speech. It was evident
then that he was struggling against himself. And so his intimate friends
would find him out and accuse him, yet he was not displeased by the charge
of concealing his anger. Why
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should he not have been happy that many perceived his anger, yet no
man felt it? But they would have felt it, had his friends not been granted
the same right to criticize him which he himself claimed over them. How
much more ought we to do this! Let us beg all our best friends to use to
the utmost such liberty toward us, especially when we are least able to
bear it, and let there be no approval of our anger. While we are sane,
while we are ourselves, let us ask help against an evil that is powerful
and oft indulged by us. Those who cannot carry their wine discreetly and
fear that they will be rash and insolent in their cups, instruct their
friends to remove them from the feast; those who have learned that they
are unreasonable when they are sick, give orders that in times of illness
they are not to be obeyed. It is best to provide obstacles for recognized
weaknesses, and above all so to order the mind that even when shaken by
most serious and sudden happenings it either shall not feel anger, or shall
bury deep any anger that may arise from the magnitude of the unexpected
affront and shall not acknowledge its hurt. That this can be done will
become clear if from a great array of instances I shall cite a few examples;
from these you may learn two things - how great evil there is in anger
when it wields the complete power of supremely powerful men, and how great
control it can impose upon itself when restrained by the stronger influence
of fear.
Since Cambyses was too much addicted to wine,
Praexaspes, one of his dearest friends, urged him to drink more sparingly,
declaring that drunkenness is disgraceful for a king, towards whom all
eyes and ears are turned. To this Cambyses replied "To
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convince you that I never lose command of myself, I shall proceed to
prove to you that my eyes and my hands perform their duty in spite of wine."
Thereupon taking larger cups he drank more recklessly than ever, and when
at length he was heavy and besotted with wine, he ordered the son of bis
critic to proceed beyond the threshold and stand there with his left hand
lifted above his head. Then he drew his bow and shot the youth through
the very heart - he had mentioned this as his mark - and cutting open the
breast of the victim he showed the arrow-head sticking in the heart itself,
and then turning toward the father he inquired whether he had a sufficiently
steady hand. But he replied that Apollo himself could not have made a more
unerring shot. Heaven curse such a man, a bondslave in spirit even more
than in station! He praised a deed, which it were too much even to have
witnessed. The breast of his son that had been torn asunder, his heart
quivering from its wound, he counted a fitting pretext for flattery. He
ought to have provoked a dispute with him about his boast and called for
another shot, that the king might have the pleasure of displaying upon
the person of the father himself an even steadier hand! What a bloodthirsty
king! What a worthy mark for the bows of all his followers! Though we may
execrate him for terminating a banquet with punishment and death, yet it
was more accursed to praise that shot than to make it. We shall see later
how the father should have borne himself as he stood over the corpse of
his son, viewing that murder of which he was both the witness and the cause.
The point now under discussion is clear, namely, that it is possible to
suppress anger. He
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did not curse the king, he let slip no word even of anguish, though
he saw his own heart pierced as well as his son's. It may be said that
he was right to choke back words; for even if he had spoken as an angry
man, he could have accomplished nothing as a father. He may, I say, be
thought to have acted more wisely in that misfortune than he had done in
recommending moderation in drinking to a man who would have much better
drunk wine than blood, with whom peace meant that his hands were busy with
the wine-cup. He, therefore, added one more to the number of those who
have shown by bitter misfortune the price a king's friends pay for giving
good advice.
I doubt not that Harpagus also gave some such
advice to his king, the king of the Persians, who, taking offence thereat,
caused the flesh of Harpagus's own children to be set before him as a course
in the banquet, and kept inquiring whether he liked the cooking; then when
he saw him sated with his own ills, he ordered the heads of the children
to be brought in, and inquired what he thought of his entertainment. The
poor wretch did not lack words, his lips were not sealed. "At the king's
board," he said, "any kind of food is delightful." And what did he gain
by this flattery? He escaped an invitation to eat what was left. I do not
say that a father must not condemn an act of his king, I do not say that
he should not seek to give so atrocious a monster the punishment he deserves,
but for the moment I am drawing this conclusion - that it is possible for
a man to conceal the anger that arises even from a monstrous outrage and
to force himself to words that belie it. Such restraint of distress is
necessary, particularly for
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those whose lot is cast in this sort of life and who are invited to
the board of kings. So must they eat in that company, so must they drink,
so must they answer, so must they mock at the death of their dear ones.
Whether the life is worth the price we shall see; that is another question.
We shall not condole with such a chain-gang of prisoners so wretched, we
shall not urge them to submit to the commands of their butchers; we shall
show that in any kind of servitude the way lies open to liberty.
If the soul is sick and because of its own imperfection unhappy, a man
may end its sorrows and at the same time himself. To him to whom chance
has given a king that aims his shafts at the breasts of his friends, to
him who has a master that gorges fathers with the flesh of their children,
I would say: "Madman, why do you moan? Why do you Wait for some enemy to
avenge you by the destruction of your nation, or for a mighty king from
afar to fly to your rescue? In whatever direction vou may turn your eyes,
there lies the means to end; our woes. See you that precipice? Down that
is the way to liberty. See you that sea, that river, that well? There sits
liberty - at the bottom. See you that tree, stunted, blighted, and barren?
Yet from its branches hangs liberty. See you that throat of yours, your
gullet, your heart? They are ways of escape from servitude. Are the ways
of egress I show you too toilsome, do they require too much courage and
strength? Do you ask what is the highway to liberty? Any vein in your body!"
So long indeed as there shall be no hardship so intolerable in our opinion
as
to force us to abandon life, let us, no matter what our station in life
may
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be, keep ourselves from anger. It is harmful for all who serve. For
any sort of chafing grows to self-torture, and the more rebellious we are
under authority, the more oppressive we feel it to be. So a wild beast
by struggling but tightens its noose; so birds by trying in their alarm
to get free from birdlime, smear all their plumage with it. No yoke is
so tight but that it hurts less to carry it than to struggle against it.
The only relief for great misfortunes is to bear them and submit to their
coercion. But though it is expedient for subjects to control their passions,
especially this mad and unbridled one, it is even more expedient for kings.
When his position permits a man to do all that anger prompts, general destruction
is let loose, nor can any power long endure which is wielded for the injury
of many; for it becomes imperilled when those who separately moan in anguish
are united by a common fear. Consequently, many kings have been the victims
now of individual, now of concerted, violence, at times when a general
animosity had foreed men to gather together their separate angers into
one. Yet many kinds have employed anger as if it were the badge of real
power; for example Darius, who after the dethronement of the Magian became
the first ruler of the Persians and of a great part of the East./b For
after he had declared war on the Scythians who were on his eastern border,
Oeobazus, an aged noble, besought him to use the services of two of his
sons, but to leave one out of the three as a comfort to his father. Promising
more than was asked, and saying that he would exempt all three, Darius
flung their dead bodies before their father's eyes - for it would have
been cruelty if he had taken them all with him!
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But how much kinder was Xerxes! For he, when Pythius, the father of
five sons, begged for the exemption of one, permitted him to choose the
one he wished; then he tore into halves the son who had been chosen, and
placing a half on each side of the road offered the body as an expiatory
sacrifice for the success of the army. And so the army met the fate it
deserved. Defeated, routed far and wide, and seeing its own destruction
spread on every side, between two lines of the dead bodies of its comrades
it trudged along.
Such was the ferocity of barbarian kings when
in anger - men who had had no contact with learning or the culture of letters.
But I shall now show you a king from the very bosom of Aristotle, even
Alexander, who in the midst of a feast with his own hand stabbed Clitus,
his dearest friend, with whom he had grown up, because he withheld his
flattery and was reluctant to transform himself from a Macedonian and a
free man into a Persian slave. Lysimachus, likewise a familiar friend,
he threw to a lion. Though Lysimachus escaped by some good luck from the
lion's teeth, was he therefore, in view of this experience, a whit more
kind when he himself became king? Not so, for Telesphorus the Rhodian,
his own friend, he completely mutilated, and when he had cut of his ears
and nose, he shut him up in a cage as if he were some strange and unknown
animal and for a long time lived in terror of him, since the hideousness
of his hacked and mutilated face had destroyed every appearance of a human
being; to this were added starvation and squalor and the filth of a body
left to wallow in its own dung; furthermore his hands and knees becoming
all calloused -
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for by the narrowness of his quarters he was forced to use these instead
of feet - his sides, too, a mass of sores from rubbing, to those who beheld
him his appearance was no less disgusting than terrible, and having been
turned by he punishment into a monster he had forfeited even pity. Yet,
while he who suffered these things was utterly unlike a human being, he
who inflicted them was still less like one.
Would to heaven that the examples of such
cruelty had been confined to foreigners, and that along with other vices
from abroad the barbarity of torture and such venting of anger had not
been imported into the practices of Romans! Marcus Marius, to whom the
people erected statues in every street, whom they worshipped with offerings
of frankincense and wine - this man by the command of Lucius Sulla had
his ankles broken, his eyes gouged out, his tongue and his hands cut off,
and little by little and limb by limb Sulla tore him to pieces, just as
if he could make him die as many times as he could maim him. And who was
it who executed this command? Who but Catiline, already training his hands
to every sort of crime? He hacked him to pieces before the tomb of Quintus
Catulus, doing violence to the ashes of that gentlest of men, above which
a hero - of evil influence, no doubt, yet popular and loved not so much
undeservedly as to excess - shed his blood drop by drop. It was meet that
a Marius should suffer these things, that a Sulla should give the orders,
and that a Catiline should execute them, but it was not meet that the state
should receive in her breast the swords of her enemies and her protectors
alike. But why do I search out ancient crimes? Only recently Gaius Caesar
slashed with the scourge
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execution by night? Though robberies are generally curtained by darkness,
the more publicity punishments have, the more they avail as an admonition
and warning. But here also I shall hear the answer "That which surprises
you so much is the daily habit of that beast; for this he lives, for this
he loses sleep, for this he burns the midnight oil." But surely you will
find no other man who has bidden that the mouths of all those who were
to be executed by his orders should be gagged by inserting a sponge, in
order that they might not even have the power to utter a cry. What doomed
man was ever before deprived of the breath with which to moan? Caesar feared
lest the man's last agony should give utterance to some speech too frank,
lest he might hear something that he would rather not. He was well aware,
too, that there were countless crimes, with which none but a dying man
would dare reproach him. If no sponges were to be found, he ordered the
garments of the poor wretches to be torn up, and their mouths to be stuffed
with the strips. What savagery is this? Let a man draw his last breath,
leave a passage for his departing soul, let it have some other course of
exit than a wound! It would be tedious to add more - how he sent officers
to the homes of his victims, and on that same night made away with their
fathers too - that is, out of human pity he freed the fathers from their
sorrow! And, indeed, my purpose is not to picture the cruelty of Gaius,
but the cruelty of anger, which not only vents its fury on a man here and
there, but rends in pieces whole nations, which lashes cities and rivers
and lifeless things that are immune to all feeling of pain.
Thus, the king of the Persians cut off the
noses of
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a whole population in Syria, whence it gets its name of "Land-of- the-stump-nosed." Think you he was merciful because he did not cut off their entire heads? No, he got some pleasure from a new kind of punishment. And the Ethiopians, who on account of the prodigiously long time they live are known as the "Longevals," might also have suffered some such fate. For Cambyses became enraged against them because, instead of embracing servitude with outstretched arms, they sent envoys and made reply in the independent words which kings call insults; wherefore, without providing supplies, without investigating the roads, through a trackless and desert region he hurried against them his whole host of fighting men. During the first day's march his food supplies began to fail, and the country itself, barren and uncultivated and untrodden by the foot of man, furnished them nothing. At first the tenderest parts of leaves and shoots of trees satisfied their hunger, then skins softened by fire and whatever necessity forced them to use as food. After, amid the desert sands, even roots and herbage failed them, and they viewed a wilderness destitute also of animal life, choosing every tenth man by lot, they secured the nutriment that was more cruel than hunger. And still the king was driven headlong onwards by his anger, until having lost one part of his army and having devoured another part, he began to fear that he too might be summoned to the choice by lot. Only then did he give the signal for retreat.
And all the while fowls of choice breed were being kept for him, and
camels carried supplies for his feasts, while his soldiers drew lots to
discover who should miserably perish, who should more miserably live.
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so had it not seemed good for men who had such an evil tongue to find
a master. The grandson of this man was Alexander, who used to hurl his
spear at his dinner-guests, who, of the two friends mentioned above, exposed
one to the fury of a wild beast, the other to his own. Of these two, however,
the one who was thrown to a lion lived. Alexander did not get this weakness
from his grandfather, nor from his father either; for if Philip possessed
any virtues at all, among them was the ability to endure insults - a great
help in the maintenance of a throne. Demochares, surnamed Parrhesiastes"
on account of his bold and impudent tongue, came to him once in company
with other envoys from the Athenians. Having granted the delegation a friendly
hearing, Philip said, "Tell me what I can do that will please the Athenians."
Demochares took him at his word and replied, "Hang yourself." All the bystanders
flared up in indignation at such brutal words, but Philip bade them keep
quiet and let that Thersites/c withdraw safe and unharmed. "But you," he
said, "you other envoys, go tell the Athenians that those who speak such
words show far more arrogance than those who listen to them without retaliation."
The deified Augustus also did and said many
things that are memorable, which prove that was not ruled by anger. Timagenes,
a writer of history, made some unfriendly remarks about the emperor himself,
his wife, and all his family, and they had not been lost; for reckless
wit gets bandied about more freely and is on everybody's lips. Often did
Caesar warn him that he must have a more prudent tongue; when he persisted,
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him the palace. After this, Timagenes lived to old age in the house
of Asinius Pollio, and was lionized by the whole city. Though Caesar had
excluded him from the palace, he was debarred from no other door. He gave
readings of the history which he had written after the incident, and the
books which contained the doings of Augustus Caesar he put in the fire
and burned. He maintained hostility against Caesar, yet no one feared to
be his friend, no one shrank from him as a blasted man; though he fell
from such a height, he found some one ready to take him to his bosom. As
I have said, Caesar bore all of this patiently, not even moved by the fact
that his renown and his achievements had been assailed; he made no complaint
against the host of his enemy. To Asinius Pollio he merely said, "You're
keeping a wild beast." Then, when the other was trying to offer some
excuse, he stopped him and said, "enjoy yourself, my dear Pollio, enjoy
yourself!" and when Pollio declared, "If you bid me, Caesar, I shall forthwith
deny him the house," he replied, "Do you think that I would do this, when
it was I who restored the friendship between you? For the fact is, Pollio
had once had a quarrel with Timagenes, and his only reason for ending it
was that Caesar had now begun one.
Whenever a man is provoked, therefore, let
him say to himself, "Am I more mighty than Philip? Yet he was cursed and
did not retaliate. Have I more authority over my house than the deified
Augustus had over all the world? Yet he was content merely to keep away
from his maligner. "What right have I to make my slave atone by stripes
and manacles for too loud a reply, too rebellious a
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look, a muttering of something that I do not quite hear? Who am I that
it should be a crime to offend my ears? Many have pardoned their enemies;
shall I not pardon the lazy, the careless, and the babbler? Let a child
be excused by bis age, a woman by her sex, a stranger by his independence,
a servant by the bond of intercourse. Does some one offend for the first
time? Let us reflect how long he has pleased us. At other times and often
has he given offence? Let us bear longer what we have long borne. Is he
a friend? He has done what he did not mean to do. Is he an enemy? He did
what he had a right to do. One that is sensible let us believe, one that
is foolish let us forgive. Whoever it may be, let us say to ourselves on
his behalf that even the wisest men have many faults, that no man is so
guarded that he does not sometimes let his diligence lapse, nor so seasoned
that accident does not drive his composure into some hot-headed action,
none so fearful of giving offence that he does not stumble into it while
seeking to avoid it.
As to the humble man, it brings comfort in
trouble that great men's fortune also totters, and as he who weeps for
his son in a hovel is more content if he has seen the piteous procession
move from the palace also, so a man is more content to be injured by one,
to be scorned by another, if he takes thought that no power is so great
as to be beyond the reach of harm. But if even the wisest do wrong, whose
sin will not have good excuse? Let us look back upon our youth and recall
how often we were too careless about duty, too indiscreet in speech, too
intemperate in wine. If a man gets angry, let us give him enough time to
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he will chastise himself. Suppose in the end he deserves punishment;
then there is no reason why we should match his misdeeds. There will be
no doubt about this - that whoever scorns his tormentors removes himself
from the common herd and towers above them. The mark of true greatness
is not to notice that you have received a blow. So does the huge wild beast
calmly turn and gaze at barking dogs, so does the wave dash in vain against
a mighty cliff. The man who does not get angry stands firm, unshaken by
injury; he who gets angry is overthrown. But he whom I have just set above
the reach of all harm holds, as it were, in his arms the highest good,
and not only to a man, but to Fortune herself, he will say: "Do what you
will, you are too puny to disturb my serenity. Reason, to whom I have committed
the guidance of my life, forbids it. My anger is likely to do me more harm
than your wrong. And why not more? The limit of the injury is fixed, but
how far the anger will sweep me no man knows." "I cannot," you say, "be
forbearing; it is difficult to submit to a wrong." That is not true; for
who that can tolerate anger will yet be unable to tolerate wrong? Besides,
what you now propose is to tolerate both anger and wrong. Why do you tolerate
the delirium of a sick man, the ravings of a lunatic, or the wanton blows
of children? Because, of course, they seem not to know what they are doing.
What difference does it make what weakness it is that makes a person irresponsible?
The plea of irresponsibility holds equally good for all. "What then?" you
say; "shall the man go unpunished?" Grant that you wish it so, nevertheless
it will not be
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so; for the greatest punishment of wrong-doing is the having done it,
and no man is more heavily punished than he who is consigned to the torture
of remorse. Again, we must consider the limitations of our human lot if
we are to be just judges of all that happens; he, however, is unjust who
blames the individual for a fault that is universal. Amongst his own people
the colour of the Ethiopian is not notable, and amongst the Germans red
hair gathered into a knot is not unseemly for a man. You are to count nothing
odd or disgraceful for an individual which is a general characteristic
of his nation, even those examples that I have cited can plead in defence
the practice of some one section and corner of the world. Consider now
how much more justly excuse may be made for those qualities that are common
to the whole human race. We are all inconsiderate and unthinking, we are
all untrustworthy, discontented, ambitious - why should I hide the universal
sore by softer words? - we are all wicked. And so each man will find in
his own breast the fault which he censures in another. Why do you notice
the pallor of A, the gauntness of B? These qualities are epidemic! And
so let us be more kindly toward one another; we being wicked live among
the wicked. Only one thing can bring us peace -the compact of mutual indulgence.
You say, perhaps, "That man has already injured me, but I have not yet
injured him." But perhaps you have already harmed, perhaps you will some
day harm, some man. Do not count only this hour or this day; consider the
whole character of your mind - even if you bave done no wrong, you are
capable of doing it. How much better it is to heal than to avenge an
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injury! Vengeance consumes much time, and it exposes the doer to many injuries while he smarts from one; our anger alays lasts longer than the hurt. How much better it is to take the opposite course and not to match fault with fault. Would any one think that he was well balanced if he repaid a mule with kicks and a dog with biting? But you say, "Those creatures do not know that they are doing wrong." In the first place, how unjust is he in whose eyes being a man is fatal to obtaining pardon! In the second place, if other creatures escape your anger for the very reason that they are lacking in understanding, every man who lacks understanding should hold in your eyes a like position. For what difference does it make that his other qualities are unlike those of dumb animals if he' resembles them in the one quality that excuses dumb animals for every misdeed - a mind that is all darkness? "He did wrong," you say. Well, was this the first time? Will it be the last time? You need not believe him even if he should say, "I will never do it again." He will go on sinning and some one else will sin against him , and the whole of life will be a tossing about amid errors. Kindness must be treated with kindness. The words so often addressed to one in grief will prove most effective also for a man in anger: "Will you ever desist - or never?" If ever, how much better it is to forsake anger than to wait for anger to forsake you! Or shall this turmoil continue for ever? Do you see to what life-long unrest you are dooming yourself? For what will be the life of one who is always swollen with rage? Besides, when you have successfully inflamed yourself with passion, and have repeatedly [Ess1-323]
renewed the causes that spur you on, your anger will leave you of its
own accord, and lapse of time will reduce its power. How much better it
is that it should be vanquished by you than by itself!
You will be angry first with this man, then
with that one; first with slaves, then with freedmen; first with parents,
then with children; first with acquaintances, then with strangers; for
there are causes enough everywhere unless the mind enters to intercede.
Rage will sweep you hither and yon, this way and that, and your madness
will be prolonged by new provocations that constantly arise. Tell me, unhappy
man, will you ever find time to love? What precious time you are wasting
upon an evil thing! How much better would it be at this present moment
to be gaining friends, reconciling enemies, serving the state, devoting
effort to private affairs, than to be casting about to see what evil you
can do to some man, what wound you may deal to his position, his estate,
or his person, although you cannot attain this without struggle and danger
even if your adversary be an inferior! You may take him in chains and at
your pleasure expose him to every test of endurance; but too great violence
in the striker has often dislocated a joint, or left a sinew fastened in
the very teeth it had broken. Anger has left many a man crippled, many
disabled, even when it has found its victim submissive. Besides, there
lives no creature so weak that it will die without trying to harm its destroyer;
sometimes pain, sometimes a mishap, makes the weak a match for the strongest.
And is it not true that most of the things that make us angry offend us
more than they harm us? But it makes a great difference whether a man
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thwarts my wish or fails to further it, whether he robs me or merely
fails to give. And yet we attach the same value to both - whether a man
deprives us of something or merely withholds it, whether be shatters our
hope or defers it, whether he acts against us or in his own interest, whether
from love of another or from hatred of us. Some men, indeed, have not only
just, but even honourable reasons for opposing us. One is protecting his
father, another his brother, another his country, another his friend. Nevertheless,
we do not excuse these for doing the very thing which we should blame them
for not doing; nay, more, though it is quite unbelievable, we often think
well of an act, but ill of its doer. But, in very truth, a great and just
man honours those of his foes who are bravest and are most stubborn in
the defence of the liberty and the safety of their country, and prays that
fortune may grant him such men as fellow-citizens, such as fellow-soldiers.
It is base to hate a man who commands your
praise, but how much baser to hate any one for the very reason that he
deserves your pity. If a captive, suddenly reduced to servitude, still
retains some traces of his freedom and does not run nimbly to mean and
toilsome tasks, if sluggish from inaction he does not keep pace with the
speed of his master's horse and carriage, if worn out by his daily vigils
he yields to sleep, if when transferred to hard labour from service in
the city with its many holidays he either refuses the toll of the farm
or does not enter into it with energy - in such cases let us discriminate,
asking whether he cannot or will not serve. We shall acquit many if we
begin with discernment instead of with anger. But as it is, we obey our
first impulse; then,
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although we have been aroused by mere trifles, we continue to be angry
for fear that we may seem to have had no reason to be so from the first,
and -what is most unjust - the very injustice of our anger makes us the
more obstinate. For we hold on to it and nurse it, as if the violence of
our anger were proof of its justice.
How much better it is to perceive its first
beginnings - how slight, how harmless they are! You will find that the
same thing happens with a man which you observe in dumb animals; we are
ruffled by silly and petty things. The bull is aroused by a red colour,
the asp strikes at a shadow, bears and lions are irritated by a handkerchief;
all creatures by nature wild and savage are alarmed by trifles. The same
is true of men, whether they are by nature restless or inert. They are
smitten with suspicions, so powerfully, even,that they sometimes call moderate
benefits injuries; these are the most common, certainly the most bitter,
source of anger. For we become angry at our dearest friends because they
have bestowed less than we anticipated, and less than they conferred upon
another; and yet for both troubles there is a ready remedy. More favour
has been shown another; then let us without making comparison be pleased
with what we have. That man will never be happy whom the sight of a happier
man tortures. I may have less than I hoped for; but perhaps I hoped for
more than I ought. It is from this direction that we have most to fear;
from this springs the anger that is most destructive, that will assail
all that is most holy. Among those who dispatched the divine Julius there
were more friends than enemies - friends whose insatiate hopes he had failed
to satisfy, He wished
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indeed to do so - for no man ever made a more generous use of victory,
from which he claimed nothing for himself except the right to give away
- but how could he gratify such unconscionable desires, since every one
of them coveted as much as any one could possibly covet? And so he saw
his fellow-soldiers around his chair with their swords drawn - Tillius
Cimber, a little while before the boldest defender of his cause, and others
who, after Pompey was no more, had at length become Pompeians. It is
this that turns against kings their own weapons, and drives their most
trusted followers to the point of planning for the death of those for whom
and before whom they had vowed to die. No man when he views the lot of
others is content with his own. This is why we grow angry even at the gods,
because some person is ahead of us, forgetting how many men there are behind
us, and how huge a mass of envy follows at the back of him who envies but
a few. Nevertheless such is the presumptuousness of men that, although
they may have received much, they count it an injury that they might have
received more. "He gave me the praetorship, but I had hoped for the consulship;
he gave me the twelve fasces, but he did not make me a regular consul;
he was willing that my name should be attached to the year,/b but he disappointed
me with respect to the priesthood; I was elected a member of the college,
but why of one only? he crowned me with public honour, but he added nothing
to my patrimony; what he gave me he had to give to somebody - he took nothing
out of his own pocket." Express thanks rather for what you have received;
wait for the rest, and be glad that you are not yet surfeited. There is
a
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pleasure in having something left to hope for. Have you outstripped
all others? Rejoice that you are first in the regard of your friend. Are
there many who outstrip you? Consider how many more you are ahead of than
behind, Do you ask me what is your greatest fault? Your book-keeping is
wrong; what you have paid out you take high; what you have received, low.
Different considerations should in different cases restrain us. From some
let fear stay our anger, from others respect, from others pride. A fine
thing we shall have done, no doubt, if we send a wretched slave to prison!
Why are we in such a hurry to flog him at once, to break his legs forthwith?
Such power,though deferred, will not perish. Wait for the time when the
order will be our own; at the moment we shall speak under the dictation
of anger; when that has passed, then we shall be able to see at what value
we should appraise the damage. For it is in this that we are most liable
to be wrong. We resort to the sword and to capital punishment, and an act
that deserves the censure of a very light flogging we punish by chains,
the prison, and starvation. "In what way," you ask, "do you bid us discover
how paltry, how pitiful, how childish are all those things by which we
think we are injured?" I, assuredly, could suggest nothing better than
that you acquire a truly great spirit, and that you realize how sordid
and worthless are all these things for the sake of which we wrangle, rush
to and fro, and pant; these do not deserve a thought from the man who has
any high and noble purpose.
Most of the outcry is about money. It is this
which wearies the courts, pits father against son, brews poisons, and gives
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cut-throats it is daubed with our blood; because of it husbands and
wives make night hideous with their quarrels, crowds swarm to the tribunals
of the magistrates, kings rage and plunder and overthrow states that have
been built by the long labour of centuries, in order that they may search
for gold and silver in the very ashes of cities. It is a pleasure, you
say, to see money-bags lying in the corner. But these are what men shout
for until their eyeballs start; for the sake of these the law-courts resound
with the din of trials, and jurors summoned from distant parts sit in judgement
to decide which man's greed has the juster claim. But what if it is not
even a bag of money, but only a handful of copper or a silver piece, reckoned
by a slave, which causes an heirless old man on the verge of the grave
to split with rage? And what if it is only a paltry one per cent of interest
that causes the moneylender, sick though he be, with crippled feet and
with gnarled hands that no longer serve for counting money, to shout aloud,
and in the very throes of his malady to require securities for his pennies?
If you were to offer me all the money from all the mines, which we are
now so busy in digging, if you were to cast before my eves all the money
that buried treasures hold - for greed restores to earth what it once in
wickedness drew forth - I should not count that whole assembled hoard worth
even a good man's frown. With what laughter should we attend the things
that now draw tears from our eyes!
Come, now, run through the other causes of
anger - foods, drinks, and the refinements in regard to them devised to
gratify pride, insulting words, disrespectful gestures, stubborn beasts
of burden and lazy slaves,
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suspicion and the malicious misconstruction of another's words, the
result of which is that the very gift of human speech is counted among
the injustices of nature. Believe me, these things which incense us not
a little are little things, likc the trifles that drive children to quarrels
and blows. Not one of them, though we take them so tragically, is a serious
matter, not one is important. From this, I say, from the fact that you
attach great value to petty things, come your anger and your madness. This
man wanted to rob me of my inheritance; this one slandered me to people
whom I had long courted in the expectation of a legacy; this one coveted
my mistress. The desire for the same thing, which ought to have been a
bond of love, becomes the source of discord and of hatred. A narrow path
drives passers-by to blows; on a wide and open road even a multitude will
not jostle. Because the things you strive for are trifles, and yet cannot
be given to one without robbing another, they provoke those desiring the
same things to struggle and strife.
You are indignant because your slave, your
freedman, your wife, or your client answered you back; and then you complain
that the state has been deprived of that liberty of which you have deprived
your own household. Again, you call it obstinacy if a man keeps silent
when he is questioned. But let him speak and let him keep silent and let
him laugh! "In the presence of his master?" you ask. Yes, even in the presence
of the head of the family. Why do you shout? Why do you rant? Why do you
call for the whip in the midst of dinner, all because the slaves are talking,
because there is not the silence of the desert in a room that holds a crowd
big as a
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mass-meeting? You do not have ears only for the purpose of listening
to melodious sounds, soft and sweetly drawn and all in harmony; you should
also lend ear to laughter and weeping, to soft words and bitter, to happiness
and sorrow, to the voices of men and the roars and barking of animals.
Poor fellow! why do you shudder at the shouting of a slave, at the rattling
of bronze, or the banging of a door? Although you are so sensitive, you
have to listen to thunder. And all this which I have said about the ears
you may apply as well to the eyes, which if they are not well schooled
suffer not less from squeamishness. They are offended by a spot, by dirt,
by tarnished silver, and by a pool that isonot transparent to the bottom.
These same eyes, forsooth, that cannot tolerate marble unless it is mottled
and polished with recent rubbing, that cannot tolerate a table unless it
is marked by many a vein, that at home would see under foot only pavements
more costly than gold - these eyes when outside will behold, all unmoved,
rough and muddy paths and dirty people, as are most of those they meet,
and tenement walls crumbled and cracked and out of line. Why is it, then,
that we are not offended on the street, yet are annoyed at home, except
that in the one case we are in an unruffled and tolerant state of mind,
and in the other are peevish and fault-finding? All our senses ought to
be trained to endurance. They are naturally long-sufffering, if only the
mind desists from weakening them. This should be summoned to give an account
of itself every day. Sextius had this habit, and when the day was over
and he had retired to his nightly rest, he would put
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these questions to his soul: "What bad habit have you cured to- day?
What fault have you resisted? In what respect are you better?" Anger will
cease and become more controllable if it finds that it must appear before
a judge every day. Can anything be more excellent than this practice of
thoroughly sifting the whole day? And how delightful the sleep that follows
this self- examination - how tranquil it is, how deep and untroubled, when
the soul has either praised or admonished itself, and when this secret
examiner and critic of self has given report of its own character! I avail
myself of this privilege, and every day I plead my cause before the bar
of self. When the light has been removed from sight, and my wife, long
aware of my habit, has become silent, I scan the whole of my day and retrace
all my deeds and words. I conceal nothing from myself, I omit nothing.
For why should I shrink from any of my mistakes, when I may commune thus
with myself?
"See that you never do that again; I will
pardon you this time. In that dispute, you spoke too offensively; after
this don't have encounters with ignorant people; those who have never learned
do not want to learn. You reproved that man more frankly than you ought,
and consequently you have, not so much mended him as offended him. In the
future, consider not only the truth of what you say, but also whether the
man to whom you are speaking can endure the truth. A good man accepts reproof
gladly; the worse a man is the more bitterly he resents it." At a banquet
the wit of certain people and some words aimed to sting you reached their
mark. But remember to avoid the entertainments of the vulgar;
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after drinking their licence becomes too lax, because they want any
sense of propriety even when they are sober. You saw one of your friends
in a rage because the porter had thrust him out when he was trying to enter
the house of some pettifogger or rich man, and you yourself on your friend's
account became angry with that lowest kind of a slave. Will you then become
angry with a chained watchdog? He, too, after all his barking, will become
gentle if you toss him food. Retire a little way and laugh! As it is, the
fellow thinks himself a somebody because he guards a threshold beset by
a throne of litigants; as it is, the gentleman who reclines within is blissful
and blest and considers it the mark of a successful and powerful man to
make it difficult to darken his door. He forgets that the hardest door
of all to open is the prison's. Make up your mind that there are many things
which you must bear. Is any one surprised that he is cold in winter? That
he is sick at sea? That he is jolted about on the highroad? The mind will
meet bravely everything for which it has been prepared. Because you were
given a less honourable place at the table, you began to get angry at your
host, at the writer of the invitation, at the man himself who was preferred
above you. Madman! what difference does it make on what part of the couch
you recline? Can a cushion add to either your honour or your disgrace?
You did not look with fair eyes upon a certain man because he spoke ill
of your talent. Do you accept this as a principle? Then Ennius, whose poetry
you do not like, would hate you, and Hortensius, if you disapproved of
his speeches, would proclaim animosity to you, and Cicero, if you made
fun of his poetry, would be your
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enemy. But when you are a candidate, you are willing to put up calmly
-with the votes! Some one, perhaps, has offered you an insult; was it any
greater than the one Diogenes, the Stoic philosopher, suffered, who at
the very time he was discoursing upon anger was spat upon by a shameless
youth. Yet he bore this calmly and wisely. Really, I am not angry," he
said, "but nevertheless am not sure but that I ought to be angry." Yet
how much better the course of our own Cato! For when he was pleading a
case, Lentulus, that factious and unruly man who lingers in the memory
of our fathers, gathering as much thick saliva as he could, spat it full
upon the middle of Cato's forehead. But he wiped it off his face and said,
"To all who affirm that you have no cheek, Lentulus, I'll swear that
they are mistaken." We have now succeeded, Novatus, in bringing composure
to the mind; it either does not feel anger, or is superior to it. Let us
now see how we may allay the anger of others. For we wish not merely to
be healed ourselves, but also to heal. We shall not venture to soothe the
first burst of anger with words. It is both deaf and mad; we must give
it room. Remedies are effective when the malady subsides. We do not tamper
with the eyes when they are swollen - for in their stiff condition we are
likely to irritate them by moving them -nor with other affected parts while
they are inflamed. Rest is the cure in the first stages of illness. "How
little," you say, "is your remedy worth, if it quiets anger when it is
subsiding of its own accord!" In the first place, it makes it subside all
the more quickly; in the second, it prevents its recurrence;
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it will baffle, also, even the first outburst which it makes no effort to soothe, for it will remove all the weapons of revenge; it will feign anger in order that, posing thus as a helper and comrade of our resentment, it may have more influence in counsel; it will contrive delays, and will postpone immediate punishment by looking about for a heavier one. It will employ every artifice to give respite to the madness. If the victim grows violent, it will enforce on him a sense of shame or fear that he cannot resist; if calmer, it will introduce conversation that is either interesting or novel, and will divert him by stirring his desire for knowledge. There is a story that once a physician had to cure the daughter of a king, and yet could not without using the knife. And so, while he was gently dressing her swollen breast, be inserted a lance concealed in a sponge. The girl would have fought against the remedy openly applied, but because sbe did not expect it, she endured the pain. Some matters are cured only by deception. To one man you will say, "See to it that you do not by your anger give pleasure to your foes"; to another, "See to it that you do not lose your greatness of mind and the reputation you have in the eyes of many for strength. By heavens, I myself am indignant and I angry beyond measure, but we must await our time.
He shall pay the penalty; keep that well in mind. When you can, you
will make him pay for the delay as well." To reprove a man when he is angry
and in turn to become angry at him serve only to increase his anger. You
will approach him with various appeals and persuasively, unless you happen
to be an important enough person to be able to quell his anger by the same
tactics the
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deified Augustus used when he was dining with Vedius Pollio. When
one of his slaves had broken a crystal cup, Vedius ordered him to be seized
and doomed him to die, but in an extraordinary way he ordered him to be
thrown to the huge lampreys, which he kept in a fish-pond. Who would not
suppose that he did this merely for display? It was really out of cruelty.
The lad slipped from his captors and fled to Caesar's feet, begging only
that he might die some other way - anything but being eaten. Caesar, shocked
by such an innovation in cruelty, ordered that the boy be pardoned, and,
besides, that all the crystal cups be broken before his eyes and that the
fish-pond be filled up. It was so that it befitted Caesar to rebuke a friend;
he employed his power rightly: "Do you order men to be hurried from a banquet
to death, and to be torn to pieces bytortures of an unheard-of kind? If
your cup was broken, is a man to have his bowels torn asunder? Will you
vaunt yourself so much as to order a man to be led to death in the very
presence of Caesar?" Thus if any man's power is so great that he can assail
anger from an eminent position, let him deal with it harshly, but only
such anger as that I have illustrated - fierce, inhuman, and bloodthirsty,
and now quite incurable unless it is made to fear something more powerful.
Let us give to the soul that peace wbich is afforded by constant meditation
on wholesome instruction, by noble deeds, and a mind intent upon the desire
for only what is honourable. Let us satisfy our conscience; for reputation
let us strive not at all. Let even a bad name attend us, provided that
we are really well-deserving. "But the populace," you
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say, admires spirited action, and the bold are held in honour - while
quiet people are considered ineffective." Perhaps so, at first sight. But
when these have proved by the even tenor of their lives that they seek,
not inaction, but peace of mind, that same public will reverence and respect
them. Consequently this hideous and ruinous passion serves not a single
useful end, but, on the contrary, evil of every sort, the sword, and flame.
Trampling under foot every scruple, it stains the hands with murder, it
scatters abroad the limbs of children, it suffers no place to be free from
crime, with no thought of glory, with no fear of disgrace, it is incurable
when once, from anger, it has hardened into hate. Let us be freed from
this evil, let us clear it from our minds and tear it up by the roots,
for if there should linger the smallest traces, it will grow again; and
let us not try to regulate our anger, but be rid of it altogether -for
what regulation can there be of any evil thing? Moreover, we can do it,
if only we shall make the effort. And nothing will help us so much as pondering
our mortality. Let each man say to himself and to his fellow-mortal: "Why
do we, as if born to live for ever, take delight in proclaiming our wrath
and in wasting the little span of life? Why do we delight to employ for
somebody's distress and torture the days that we might devote to virtuous
pleasure? Your fortunes admit no squandering and you have no spare time
to waste. Why do we rush into the fray? Why do we invite trouble for ourselves?
Why do we, forgetting our weakness, take up the huge burden of hate, and,
easily broken as we are, rise up to break? Soon a fever or some other bodily
ill will stay that war of hatred, which
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we now wage with such unrelenting purpose. Soon death will step in and part the fiercest pair of fighters. Why do we run riot and perturb life with our uproar? Fate looms above our heads, and scores up to our account the days as they go by, and draws ever nearer and nearer. That hour which you appoint for the death of another is perchance near your own."
Why do you not rather gather up your brief life and render it a peaceful
one to yourself and all others? Why do you not rather make yourself beloved
by all while you live, and regretted by all when you die? Why do vou long
to drag down the man who deals with you from too lofty a height? Why do
you try with all your might to crush the man who rails against you, a low
and contemptible fellow, but sharp-tongued and troublesome to his betters?
Why are you angry with your slave, you with your master, you with your
patron,you with your client? Wait a little. Behold, death comes, who will
make you equals. At the morning performances in the arena we often see
a battle between a bull and a bear tied together, and when they have harried
each other, an appointed slayer awaits them. Their fate is ours; we harass
some one bound closely to us, and yet the end, all too soon, threatens
the victor and the vanquished. Rather let us spend the little time that
is left in repose and peace! Let no man loathe us when we lie a corpse!
A cry of fire in the neighbourhood often ends a fight, and the arrival
of a wild beast rescues a traveller from the brigand. We have no time to
struggle with lesser ills when a more threatening fear appears. Why do
we concern ourselves with combat and with snares? Can you wish for the
victim of your wrath a greater ill than death? Even
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though you do not move a finger, he will die. You waste your pains if
you wish to do what needs must be. "I do not wish," you say, "to kill him
at all, but to punish him with exile, with public disgrace, with material
loss." But I am more indulgent to the man who would give his enemy a wound
than to the one who would give him a blister; for the latter has not only
an evil mind, but a petty mind as well. Whether your thoughts run on tortures
severe or slight, how short is the time in which either your victim can
writhe under your torments, or you derive a wicked joy from another's pain!
Soon shall we spew forth this frail spirit. Meanwhile, so long as we draw
breath, so long as we live among men, let us cherish humanity. Let us not
cause fear to any man, nor danger; let us scorn losses, wrongs, abuse,
and taunts, and let us endure with heroic mind our short-lived ills. While
we are looking back, as they say, and turning around, straightway death
will be upon us.
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